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"As soon as the partner thinks I'll have a better life with the other person, he's gone"

Those who want to save their relationship after an affair look to Melanie Mittermaier for advice.

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"As soon as the partner thinks I'll have a better life with the other person, he's gone"

Those who want to save their relationship after an affair look to Melanie Mittermaier for advice. The 48-year-old from Bad Aibling was trained as a couples counselor, but she has also experienced a lot in her private life: she was cheated on in her marriage, fell in love with someone else and tried out an open relationship with her husband. All of this experience flows into the coaching of her clients, she says on the phone. She also knows why relationship and behavior patterns repeat themselves so often in some people.

WORLD: Ms. Mittermaier, you advise couples in crisis - for most of them, an affair was the trigger. How do you notice that the relationship is turning so that the partner is open to another love?

Melanie Mittermaier: If I ask my couples more closely, then long before an affair, a crisis or a separation they have a very ...

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