Mean got fired, learning a new profession and get a job - the man took the difference: Maybe a life change for him was too stressful

Was thinking I hope that the new long relationship is found soon.Video tells about Finnish divorce. Divorced volume has remained at the same level for 20 years.

"I'll Take tomorrow the divorce application to the district court." About this wrote in the forties Leenin man, Facebook-message a year and a half ago.

- Erouutinen for me was horribly shocking. The situation was no longer anything to discuss, for the man had already decided the matter. Some message we were after. Rid of wasn't any definite reason, and not associated with another person. The man had started recently, crossfit enthusiast, and received it with the help of a new circle of friends.

was thinking had to be with her husband together for more than 20 years, 19-year-old. He lived in the time of the resignation in Spain, where the whole family was to be changed, as long as he had acquired a family ready home. Leenin think they had a good marriage.

I Think we had a good, steady relationship. We just had a fight. A few years before the divorce I was made redundant co-operation in the negotiations and I went to study in a new international profession in different localities. After that, I had an internship in Spain and I got a job here. It was intended that the get a job out here and I'll arrange the apartment ready and the man will then follow. Maybe a life change for him was too stressful, and he didn't want it.

Leenin ex-husband didn't want to discuss the difference in reasons it more. The man continued to work the job in which had been at work my entire adult life. The difference was Leenille a large shock and also the first difference ever.

- I have not had a serious relationship before our marriage. I had experienced a dog's death a greater loss before the difference. A couple of weeks I cried like Niagara falls. I was in Spain alone. Almost adult child, we lived in Finland, and I have good friends here.

a Friend cross fit enthusiastic male to be the difference

less than a couple months difference from the Mean make friends with a Finnish woman, which was exactly the same erokokemus than Leenille. Also the woman's husband had started crossfit-a hobby, an experienced hobbyist a strong team-spirit and didn't want it after the divorce his wife.

was thinking began to visit the women with entertainment on weekends, sports up to eight times a week and charging their phone more of a dating app.

- Here will get easily the attention of white women. The men went incredibly crazy blondes.

the Difference after the Mean has been ten date. The interview the previous week he had two dates on the same day.

- a Date can easily be reached, but a sustainable relationship is really hard to find. Me contacted in the thirties and the under thirties men. Forties men seem to be booked. I dated a Swedish man, but he announced that he is a suspect in a murder in Sweden and he had to go back to Sweden.

artwork image. ANSLEY VENTURA / unsplash the problem of the language barrier and the youth

One of the problems of Spanish men with is the language barrier. Spanish men don't talk Leenin according necessarily good English, didn't Mean to speak good Spanish. Men are also cancelled their date at the last moment, when the Finnish blonde meeting and English speaking has started too nervous.

- Men's behavior is not necessarily also not very good. They may date quickly access. I don't know, waiting men, that the online deittaillessa let's go quickly to bed.

was thinking it is noticed that the bars of her approaching up to 24 - and 25-year-old men.

Age is between difficult to conclude based on appearance. When it asks, it becomes clear that men can be so young.

was thinking it is seeing other than Spanish men, but they are often tourists.

I've been seeing some tourists, but they are leaving always out after the holidays. One Dutch man is promising more than half a year, that will soon come to visit.

Reserved for the speech of the shining lack of understanding of the

That day the difference between annoying Leeniä on. On the other hand, he has experienced the difference after a lot of new and quite new feelings.

- Long relationship during the consultations were always the same as before. Here I have become temperamenttisempi. Today, life is some days really good and other days sad. Single life acclimation has been difficult. The difference between the good sides is that their own expenditure, decide completely for yourself.

in a relationship with the living acquaintance of the comments may shine a lack of understanding.

Many in a long relationship, live in the guys have commented to me that if you needed the sun now to date all the time and try to calm down. It is easy to say so, when you have next to the other people.

Icing in between - "I won't bark"

Although the Spanish in the dating is between the heavy, was thinking going to stay in the country. A teenage child is currently living with her. Adult children already living on their own in Finland. The children know that the difference was solely the father's decision.

at First the kids were of course upset. They assumed that the parents ' relationship lasts. They have had me a lot of support and immediately decided to divorce, you don't start in any case to badmouth their father to them.

Between the ex-husband are Leenin according to the currently freezing. Was thinking not with her ex-husband dealing with the non-compulsory things.

was thinking the guess is that he lived in Spain as long as he is in the country a permanent job.

- Here is warm, the sun shines and there is light. Weather for me is a big factor.

"by All means, you are using"

was thinking I hope that the new long relationship now found in the forties, when dating is very energy.

- All means are used. Eyelash extensions are in the ring, my friend is a beautician and she had the treatment and I always wear heels, except at the gym. Here, culture was supposed to be all the time well groomed and dating is the appearance of the key.

fitness amount Mean is maltillistanut.

- Fitness get the difference after the first hype, when you come to the gym or the gym eight times a week. Now the sport about five times a week. Aerobics is good for the spirit hole. In the brain ventilation.

Leenin name has been changed to protect privacy. The story is published for the first time 27.06.2018.