Viewpoint: Christmas is in the worst time, and it's not your fault

Christmas is one day, which can do time through. It can make it easier each time, write to the newspaper editor Emmeline Oksanen.

I was Afraid for many years christmas. I was afraid for my life's most tragic and haunted the most relevant events have occurred just at christmas. In the transport of many weeks before christmas, a lump in my throat, because I was afraid of what evil this christmas event and on the other hand, I hope that the wounds don't open.

I know I'm not the only one christmas afraid. Christmas is many homes in fear, anxiety, and devoid of time. Of course, also of loneliness. Disputes and problems will be exacerbated at christmas, when expectations should be feeling good. If in your mind the christmas is in the darkest time, other christmas fuss can mainly irritate or make jealous.

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my fears eased little by little. First, I learned that christmas is actually only one day, which could only be locked through. I realized that no christmas spirit need to be, if it is not, nor need to pretend to be happy. I believe that many in the family would be a much better christmas if people would stop making christmas role, ”because christmas is the time to be nice”.

Volunteering on christmas was a genuinely good mood. Helping others get to experience themselves as important. I also tried to spend christmas abroad. It was a good christmas. I recommend!

Slowly start to accumulate good christmas. Most helped love. I began to spend christmas with someone who didn't carry a similar burden as me and who taught me that christmas can be such as it is, and it doesn't matter if you're scared. I also recognise the cliché that the best is to watch the children's joy, it's infectious. This is at least their own children.

with Christmas being afraid does not mean that that sad experiences are dealt with, but it could be the fact that a certain amount of time to raise the always ghosts out. Fortunately, time and good repetition will help. Your own christmas traditions you can create for yourself and succeed to change the former for the better. Relief grow in grace. Have yourself merciful.