Wiesendangen ZH mobbten recently youth a girls in the network so that it is thought to suicide. In Spreitenbach, AG, an affected teenager took his own life. How can worsen tyranny on the Internet?
bullying in the network affects the young people, in principle, more than on the Playground bullied.
It is much more difficult to distance themselves from that. What happens online, stays in the school. The Cyberbullying, as we call it, followed the victim home, on the social media and group chats. You can turn away so neither spatially nor temporally.
you could turn off the phone and ignore what is written.
That doesn't work, for two reasons. Young people strongly identify themselves via social media. You can't just turn off, it is like a piece of them self. That is why it hurts you also, if a new image of them is disparagingly commented. In addition, affected adolescents are bullied not only over the network, but also at the school. Just the phone is not enough to put away.
The girl in Wiesendangen got ugly news about the broad class chat. A teenager wrote: "Kill yourself." No one has rebuked. Why?
This is a common phenomenon. It is as if the empathy was missing in the network. When we face a Person and something Hurtful to say, we see the reaction. She's crying, perhaps, and we put hardly an insult to the other. On the Internet we do not see the face of the other Person and lose the inhibitions. That no one engages in, may also have something to do so that no one feels responsible to rush to the bullied student.
there Are teenagers who are more prone to be bullied?
Basically, it can be each and every meeting.
And how it looks at the perpetrators?
The are in General, more young people, where there is a lack of empathy. They tend to have other problems, and a circle of friends, in which aggression plays a role. It is also possible that an earlier victim to the perpetrator, or the perpetrator is. Also, this is a phenomenon we have observed.
What is the Motivation behind it?
anyone Who has experienced cyber bullying, and feel later, if need be, seized to be bullying. A study by the ETH Zurich show that about 50 percent of the pupils in the Canton of Zurich ever been bullied. There are victims, the perpetrators were, and Vice versa.
Cyberbullying is like a vicious circle. How can this break?
At best, in which the Affected person is a person of trust to open. This may be the school social worker, the father or the mother. This Person should take the concerns seriously. It should be discussed with the Victims and perpetrators, at home, in school, in the classes. A good way for the prevention of violence Peacemaker in the schools. These are young people who are determined to settle the dispute. You will receive a short training and are then comrades a low-threshold point of contact for the class. You take care of, for example, about how the victim and the offender after a bullying incident, want behavior to continue to go to school together. At our event on Thursday two Peacemaker of Hombrechtikon will be on site and tell of their experiences.
What can parents do?
The children from the primary school to teach, that there is no difference whether we move in the Internet or in reality. Of dealing with one another should always be respectful. We don't vaccinate us and make us not on each other.
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focus on a scapegoat: "All against bullying and Cyberbullying among young people"
event in the Landesmuseum, Zurich. Focus on a scapegoat: "All against bullying and Cyberbullying among young people", Thursday, 9. May 18 to 20 hrs. (Tages-Anzeiger)
Created: 07.05.2019, 16:01 PM