We do not get more children in the Uk about all going to have heart-shaped peppers in matpakken

"Now we need to get more children". This I hear increasingly more often, and the last in the prime ministers newyears speach. Even I have contributed four children to the community. It is great that Erna Solberg promises us forward, but should we have more children requires political action and attitudes.

Margret Hagerup. Show more

I was 29 years when I got the first, then came two to as beads on a string, and the last man came rekende on a spline on the end. Occasionally there were some pregnancies that went by themselves.

Aged my told him well that I chose not to breed me at the optimum time. We should have children earlier than we do today. It is worrying that more and more in need of medical help with this. The only thing that is certain is that it almost never fits.

This christmas I have been for charging at home on the couch. Occasionally I have relieved on the ass to wash clothes, clean klementinskall from the floor, play games with the kids, or made dinner. But mostly I've read books, been on the couch, and tried to breathe with the stomach.

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First, for a couple of days ago I found the fram Erna his nyttårstale, to hear what she had said about the this with to have more children. So, it is to be parents of small children: Tired as hell.

the Children are as fully it girlfriend, the beginning of everything. They are the reason that I chose to engage me in politics. Their future depends on the choices we make today. Therefore, it is important that we invest in kindergarten and school, and that we are talking about competence, and that setting requirements is to care. It is also important that we as parents set up. But I have begun to ponder a bit if we set up too much.

I face ongoing prejudice around that I have four children at the same time as I am a hard-working member of parliament. Many had at any time seen that I fit my kids better. I have after all chosen to get all four pieces, and it should perhaps only right that I not was more at home with them?

Had I been less tykkhudet I had probably been wounded by many of the comments that have come. Now I'm usually only annoyed. We need to make a settlement with the prejudices of our.

We do not get more children in the Uk about all the to run to and from training, have heart-shaped peppers in matpakken and shared family dinner days a year. I don't know if the children are upgraded better as independent people rather.

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For all that talk about multiple childbirth with småbarnslivet at a safe distance, remember that it is filled with love. But they also need to remember that it is tiring physically, mentally and financially.

We have chosen to not have the SFO. Both because of the economy (no søskenrabatt in our municipality, and one in each class from 1-3. class had made deep inroads in the budget), but also because the kids don't do their homework on SFO. My children so go home and do homework in an empty house. Chemical-free for adults. Occasionally also leave my kids alone at football practice.

I can't remember that I had parents with at leisure when I was little. Today sitting parents on the sidelines and watching when the kids are on håndballtrening. Working children who are 13 years of age, the wrinkles people on the nose. There is no one that goes with the newspapers anymore. There is also no as panther bottles anymore, I found out on the previous football tournament. "We don't need it, you fix all we need", said my son when I wondered over this. Yes, we are the parents, we shall surely fix everything. Full control. Apparently.

I think we parents have to lower shoulders and expect a little more of our kids, and less of ourselves and the welfare state. We have turned the expectations of each other too high up. We expect that the adults in the nursery to smear our kids with kuldekrem, and that teachers should teach kids to tie shoelaces. Can't the children themselves through skoleløpet, yes, it's me consultant with Nav take care of the young promising. It should surely just be missing. So it has been.

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I have just begun to read the books again. After nearly ten years of ørkenvandring where bleieskift, laundry, work, and family time took all the focus. This period is short-lived. It is actually completely true. I know now, but I never believed it when people said it to me. One must experience it for yourself. The period of bleieskift is over, and soon they will no longer crawl up on my lap. They are going out and fly on their own. My job as a politician is to make sure that they have a future to fly into.

the Value of the work is important for the welfare state. For our children and the children that are to come. All the choices we make in everyday life are not as pleasant in the short term, but necessary. Seen this way has politics and child-rearing a lot in common. It skrikes high around tough priorities, but it is better for all over time.

After one and a half years in Parliament I am positive to the future. The school is constantly improving. More included in the workplace, and it has been done a tremendous job with the pension system. Our children will be working significantly longer than today's retirees, but hardly an equally gilt-edged pension. Our job is to make this difference the least possible. We will serve both the present and the future. Forvalteransvaret lies heavily on our shoulders.

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The greatest challenge we have as politicians is to find helikopterperspektivet. It is difficult to see the forest for the trees. Jan Zahl in Aftenbladet wrote just before christmas: "I would rather have politikarer who think how the world looks when my kids are adults, and not only on the next valsyklus. Although I will have to pay extra for it today". It is an important but difficult exercise.

We need it to be born more children. The question is what price we should pay for this. It is a debate that should engage the most. It's all about the present, but also in the very highest degree on the future. Our children.