Aino, 32, fell in love with Ristoon, 57: I don't want to start a kid to raise

”If one is not experienced yet, almost nothing and the second is experienced much, the relationship can't work.”Video explains the age difference of the couple of relations.

There goes father and daughter. This batch equilibrium , 32 Ristosta , 57, has been thought of multiple times four years, during the relationship. When Ricky is on the move a couple of small children, quite often people assume that Ricky is the child's grandfather, not father.

Other people a couple of 25 year age difference is struck repeatedly. Because Aino and Risto have heard a lot of negative comments, they do not want to tell their relationship to their own names.

Other people are wondering why I am so much older than myself with a man. Some people think that the pregnancy was an accident.

the Couple themselves exploring the big age difference didn't matter.

- We didn't like it, neither as a threshold matter. Risto has been the past relationship between herself fair with a younger woman and mainly him probably amused that you fell in love again a lot of himself to the youngest.

Some of Christopher's friends have been affected to be jealous of Christopher's relationship Ainoon.

"I can't kids grow"

I Heard the Jury is also not afraid, that Only falls in love with someone salskeaan young man and going on this trip.

- it May be that he has been subconsciously such emotions, but hardly real. My job is of course to insure that I am next to him and stick to it. If you rely on another, is not afraid that the other will leave. Confidence does not depend on age, but the age difference can add to fears.

the Only experience that the large the age difference is more benefits than harm.

I don't think you in advance that I want an older man, but for me was yes clear, you can't take a child more or began kids grow.

the Only two children of school age youth union. Children he is happy, but the experience is otherwise, that went in that relationship to get married too young and the wrong kind of man. Risto does not have any other children as a child with Aino.

I've had a dreadful hurry to get married and hard baby fever. I was in high school bullied. Probably because I had a need to proceed at a fast pace, when someone I care.

EDGAR CHAPARRO / UNSPLASH"Mothers have taken care of everything"

a Couple-three twenty-something men Only have noticed that some moms have done a disservice to their sons.

- my Ex-husband had not had to deal with things, when her mother had taken care of everything. The same I have noticed in some of the other men. All are little to take care of their own affairs or accustomed to take care of official things like applying for a passport.

in Older men is Aino thinks that the advantage that they can often take care of themselves and their homes.

Independence is in a different class than the 20-30-year-olds.

in Their relationship, he also appreciates the stability and family relationships appreciation.

- my Husband does not need to run every weekend in bars or goof off with my friends. He also seems to clearly appreciate family relations and relationships, for example with siblings are close. Younger many people have the kind of stage that your own parents and family are only an inevitable evil.

Ratio of barrel to growth does not work

Aino couldn't imagine life peers with a man who was not already a lot of life experience or any difficult experiences behind.

- If the second is grown in a barrel or have not experienced yet, almost nothing and the other has been through a lot, relationship is I think it can work in the long run. In a relationship it is important to understand another's past experiences and what they cause.

the Second understanding in addition to honesty, trust, transparency and of respect for one another are Aino thinks that the important things in a relationship.

What are the disadvantages of the large age difference, is it?

Our family is bigger than average probability that our children losing one parent early. It would be me in a tight place to stay alone with three kids, because myself was the grief of the beloved departed.

the Only has for decades years of work ahead, but Risto less than ten years. The age difference raises the work when speaking.

a dream of a normal everyday life

the Future the Only hope for a normal everyday life.

I Hope that none of our family got sick and that we become major crises. Adult alone time is in the future, I hope more than now with infants. A relationship doesn't work, unless there bet, but even small things can account of everyday life in the middle.

add a child to the Only don't hope.

- I have a great desire to get ahead in the workplace. And we are not getting any younger. Yövalvomiset and wake up is not young light job, let alone elderly parents.

the number of Children is Aino view, in addition to the money issue.

- children's hobbies and the clothes are not cheap, and this size as a family, we don't need to purchase a minivan. I don't want the children to remain in something bigger without because their is so many. Currently, time and attention is enough for children and Risto.

the Thing is published for the first time 08.09.2018.