Separate or stay? Ten questions to help you answer

Doubting the relationship does not automatically mean ending it. In order to get their own relationship going again, couples also seek help from a couples therapist. Many swear by the sessions. Author Thomas Meyer, however, takes a different approach.

A breakup is essentially a "compliment" because it says your partner deserves better than a mismatch. "Ultimately, happiness is what's left after you've removed everyone from your life, which isn't good for you," summarizes Meyer. For him love means attraction, matching means understanding each other. The author has created a compatibility test with ten questions that should be answered spontaneously and honestly.

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