you're Going around with a forsikringskæreste in the back pocket, a guy who can be your back-up partner, if it goes in the goat with your current?
A plan B for the romance?
Such a one may have, consciously or unconsciously, for his love life, where you make sure - or at least considering - that there is another possible partner in the pipeline, if and when the current Mr. Right becomes Mr. Wrong.
based on that previous research has identified that two out of three young americans have a back up girlfriend in the back of the head, is a young psychologist Nicole Wedberg gone further and have coined the term partnerforsikring as well as a chart to measure the. This she calls 'Plan B Proclivity Scale', and it highlights the woman's inclination to have a back up girlfriend.
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Here are some of the schema components:
compared to the close male friends should the participant agree or disagree with statements such as ‘I'm pretty sure that that person would date me, if he had the opportunity’ and ‘I'm talking about personal issues with this person.’
the Participant will also be asked to answer yes or no to more direct questions such as ‘do you have a heterosexual male friend who you consider as your plan B?’
According to the researchers, it makes good sense, in evolutionary perspective, for a woman to have a plan B-boyfriend. Everything else being equal, it is hard to be a mother, so therefore, can a forsikringspartner be appropriate, in order that her offspring can survive, if A-boyfriend disappears for one reason or another.
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The thing is so is a sign that you have a back up girlfriend?
It appears by Wedbergs work, to a woman who is dissatisfied with his relationship, more likely to have a plan B boyfriend.
Also the woman's socio-sexual orientation is not surprisingly a marker to have a plan B. Socio-sexuality is about the person's attitudes to, and behaviour around non-committal sex. And it turns out that a woman with an open socio-sexuality (she is open to no strings attached sex) typically also have friends of the opposite sex, which also has an open socio-sexuality.
Personality traits of course has also something to do with the case: It seems that women who are more manipulative, less empathetic and overly self-indulgent, is more likely to have a plan B - which supports that the so-called Dark Triad is associated with the desire for non-committal sex.
The dark Triad is defined by three traits: Psychopathy (lack of empathy) narcisisme (excessive self-centeredness) and Machiavellisme (that the end justifies the means).
According to Nicole Wedberg have young women more likely to have forsikringskæreste. That mature women do not have a plan B in the same extent, may be due to the menopause, when the woman can no longer reproduce, is it not just as necessary with a back up girlfriend.
It may also just be due to that women, over time, growing from the need, or that young women are more some tentative in their approach to lovers.
all in All, took the researcher out that every fifth woman in the committed relationship have a plan B.
The only one. The Perfect. The Great Love. In Hollywodfilm it looks so easy, yeah, they are a little early, but deep down inside they know well, that it just must be them.
Out in the Danish reality can come into question if the person you are just beginning to gf around with, now also is the heeelt right.
But there are actually a few questions or twelve, you can ask yourself, so you can find out about your current gf also must be the future.
It takes sexterapeuten Tracy Cox, who has prepared this list. You can answer yes to at least 8-9 pieces, you are on the right way:
to Support your partner you in the new projects and plans?
Can your friends and family like him/her?
Say your friends and family that he/she has a good influence on you?
he Says/she thanks you when you do something good for them?
Forgive he/she you without holding grudges?
do you Feel that he/she really sees you for the you really are?
he/she Has a high self-esteem without being egotistical?
Admire you him/her?
Does he/she not so much attention to other attractive people?
do you Feel proud when others talk about him/her?
Can he/she like obligations, rather than to feel smothered by them?
Opens he/she up and tells how he has it?
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