I Just got me thoroughly annoyed on a non-stop coughing lady during Beethoven's 9th Symphony. I really would like to see her go to move them to the Left of the room. But I would have held still more noise. And you may move someone to Go? She sat on the edge, would be noiseless, can leave the hall. The concert only cost 10 €, you would have had no great financial loss. After the concert I am to her and said: "I wish you a speedy recovery." Soundlessly, she said thank you, without apology, because of her cough.
Bad Behavior by helplessness
Much more common than most people imagine it is causing bad Behavior by helplessness. Unreflecting selfishness also plays a role. Of course, ruthlessness. And lack of empathy. Actually, it should be a matter of course, with such a cough in a concert, and whenever possible of other people of any kind to stay away from collections, that our own Suffering will not be transferred.
That it is still on Display in the mistaken Belief, to arouse the pity of the Umsitzenden, is a bad habit that is often represents men. But lack of Empathy and misinterpretations are, unfortunately, spread to both genders. To admire your very mild reaction to the coughing lady, who has them corrupted finally, the concert. Maybe you should have for the educational effect to the good wish nor a question pin. Something like: "Why are you going with such a cough to a concert? Is this not uncomfortable?“ If someone is acting so blatantly in addition, it is actually obvious that subtle hints are sufficient to cause a change in behavior.More about
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