Nikita all member is for the time being 100% sure: She will not have children.
that's Why she's absolutely not interested in talking about children with her doctor, when she is inside for a consultation about something else entirely.
she writes on Instagram, after the Danish Health and medicines authority has come up with a proposal that doctors should ask women between 18-30 years about their plans for children, when they visit the local medical centre.
'Right now I would just like to open up the conversation on behalf of others and never ever be asked "When do you and Casper have children?" again. Because it is something I get asked about. I am asked by family members, colleagues, journalists, and every time I answer, "Hopefully never" and then to hear that I must aldriiiiig say and that I probably need to change your mind', says the advertisement, which Ekstra Bladet has been allowed to bring.
Nikita and her boyfriend Casper must immediately do not have children. Photo: Per Lange
Nikita all member compares the permanent, in children with a tattoo and responsibility as the same as when you have a dog.
'Let us just imagine that I had neither tattoos or a dog. And I said, “I shall never have a tattoo”. People would probably say “Good choice. Tattoos are permanent and may change your opinion”. If I said that I never would have a dog, people would probably say “Good choice. A dog is a big responsibility and you are going to give up the very freedom and flexibility for the. “ Guess what also is reasonable fucking permanent and a fucking huge responsibility? Children', she writes.
the Conversation about children is for the blogger in no way fair, if you as a woman comes into the doctor with a completely different problem than fertility or questions about pregnancy.
'the Board would like to have, to doctors, completely unsolicited, to speak with women between 18 and 30 to have children. Which is to say, when I three years ago went to the doctor, because I'm in a big brandert had been pressed a rib, so should my doctor just have added “you Must not really also soon have a child?”. Yes, I worked out the total as a person who was ready to take the responsibility for a second life in the moment'.
Nikita all member describes the hypothetical situation as 'crazy cross'.
the all member is not impressed by the new proposal. Photo: Mogens Flindt
In advance, she feels a huge pressure from people who think that she also must think that children are the most important thing in the world.
'I am already bombarded with the message that my ovaries should vibrate every time I hear a screaming baby. And I am aware of the risks, that is, if you choose to have children late. Maybe change one day I think about the children - we'll burn that bridge when we get there. But for now, I would just like to have a little break from the notion that becoming a mother is the greatest I possibly can strive', it sounds in conclusion.
Ekstra Bladet has been in touch with Nikita all member, who have not had additional comments for the advertisement.
the Proposal has previously been criticized by the Ethics Council, which considers that there could be talk of a 'paternalistic mindset' of the young women.
- Although the intention is the best, it is to advise young women who do not even have asked about it, the expression of a paternalistic way of thinking, it sounded from the Rune Engelbrecht.