It is still a really difficult for many women to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse, and far along the way it seems to be due to ignorance - both among women and men.
In any case, believe therapist Helene Tradesman, Roskilde, that too many women have too high expectations to 'get' an orgasm - rather than actively playing towards, and the men know not to gennemsnitskvinden is 22 minutes to reach the climax, and the prelude, therefore, the most important of it all.
In Aftonbladet published today a study that shows that 25 percent of Swedish women do not have orgasm during intercourse, but it doesn't look much better for the Danish, informs Helene Mercenary.
- It is my experience that as long as the woman believe that orgasm is something another must give her, so it can cause problems. So that a quarter of all sexually-active women not experiencing an orgasm during intercourse, is definitely not shot over the goal. If the woman just lies with a lot of expectations, so it's clearly an own goal. I meet women who only just holding their breath and waiting for the miracle - instead of to play with and insist that the man knows her needs.
But as Helene Mercenary stresses, so it is perhaps a little difficult for the woman to convey something about his or her needs, if she does not know them even.
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- When I'm out to keep the lecture on fol.a. orgasm, I hear many women, who do not dare to give their genitals a name. They call the small pussenussede things, and if it is the game itself, call it 'a mis'. As with all other things, it requires some awareness to be good at something. And if you haven't taken ownership over her own body, its sex and its enjoyment, so, is there a bid way before you become conscious of how to get orgasm.
Like so many other women had Helene Mercenary even the settlement itself, that she was one of those women who never had to experience orgasms during intercourse, but when she was 25-26 years old, she took the spoon in the other hand, and made the bed into a playground.
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She points out that if people get their information about sex from porn movies, where orgasmerne spraying out of meter, then there is nothing to say that they can get a inferiority complex .
another thing is also, that men typically don't know much about women's sexuality.
I have spoken with many men who do not know that it takes 22 minutes for the woman to achieve orgasm, including foreplay. They are very surprised that the problems for the woman because she is not ready when he comes. Since we are from studies that gennemsnitssamlejet lasts 13 minutes, it is clear that if the woman does not have got themselves warmed up during foreplay, so when she didn't have to come up with that, says Helene Mercenary.
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In the Swedish study are experiencing approx. 33 percent of women regular orgasms during sexual intercourse, while the figure for men is 65 percent. Also these figures are similar to the Danish.