This is why playing with prefer to your cell phone than your partner

Pet medical you sleep, your smartphone or a loved one? This phone will seduce you night after night. Fotolia/AOP

Many of us waiting for the moment when you get in the evening crawl to bed after a long day. Nothing is more wonderful than to curl up under the covers in late November in the dark, staring at another and give you a minute to take.

no, we're Not talking about the passionate moments with your partner. Many of us fussing namely, the sooner a smartphone is like a partner, before falling asleep.

the New York Post quoted the August study, which was interviewed over 2 000 american adults. The most popular activity before falling asleep was a scroll. The majority of the phone was the last thing they saw before closing their eyes!

55% of the respondents reported that the closeness with a partner had suffered from cell phone use. Third, again, estimates that smartphone addiction had had a negative effect on sex life.

If you're lying in bed back-to-back and scroll yourself ourselves to death, baby, we have both good news and bad news. The good news is that your relationship necessarily unacceptable. The bad news is that habit can really destroy your sex life and eventually your relationship.

This smartphone affects your sex life:

1. Scroll not to get to close

Smartphone browsing requires two hands, and another in the armpit can not lie down comfortably, when the scroll. Smartphones so outright prevent physical intimacy.

2. You're not alone

When one or both of you to surf on social media, you're not in bed alone. Ideas penetrates into the a huge number of other people, and it affects the experience your feelings of closeness.

3. The smartphone does not say ”no” to the

Social media is built so that it rewards our brains constantly. The second man is the more complicated entity.

even Though we knew another thoroughly, we still can not know what mood he is, what he likes just today and he wants to have sex. Therefore, it is safer to get a good feel of the phone, which does not reject or ask awkward questions.

4. The smartphone has a faster lover

Sex of feeling good, but your smartphone scroll to get the feel-good faster.

When social media will reward us with an exciting story, a fun video or the likes, is excreted in our brain dopamine, which makes us early with a momentary sense of well-being. That feeling lasts just for a moment, and that's why we continue to scroll from where to experience all that again.

having Sex instead requires that we get excited at the idea and kiihotumme.

Women want to light up often only when a woman is already aroused, for example when she kissed. The longer the relationship, the longer to the ignition can take. Having sex requires not only the initiative also effort, and rapid pleasure gains used when we can't see the effort.

5. Habit is second nature

smartphone addiction is a learned habit.

If you suspect that you have lost interest in your partner completely, or he is no longer interested in you, this is not necessarily the case. Your relationship might - at least so far - been pretty good, but way to browse the phone forcing you to stare at the screen.

try to, what your relationship happens when you change the way. If you've left your phone in the bedroom outside and still you lie quietly in the dark, you may have a smartphone addiction a bigger problem in your relationship.

the Thing is published for the first time 24.11.2018.

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