”are you Dancing in there bikinis on top?” This Sofia ask your grandmother, when I heard about five years ago, that the child has started work on stripper. Sofia was at the time a 23-year-old. He was nervous, what the grandparents say, if he told these that it had started to work at a strip club.
my Grandma was thrilled. I realized that my mother had already told her about my work, Sofia told me.
He appeared in this case in Sofia-the name, which is his artist name. Real name he doesn't want the public to day job employer does not get to know the erotic side.
Sofia had been friends with curiosity at a strip club and the strippers were impressed.
They carried themselves with dignity, were self-confident and strong women. When my day job ended, I contacted the strip club, which I had heard good.
Sophia went to visit the local club and met the manager. The boss seemed to appreciate the strippers genuinely. Sofia agreed to try a job, and liked it. After two weeks he called his mother, that is found in their own field.
I'm Glad you like it, my mother replied. Our family had been talked always openly about sex. I was in kindergarten that child, which told the other that the stork brings the baby.”wife, you get to at home easily with”
Sofia made a full-time job at a strip club for three years. He did his job acting in the name and to pay work taxes. Today, he's stripping, mainly at the party. Different customers have become familiar. They include, for example, a man with a stripper you gave a nickname he's not going anywhere. He brought always different tights, Sofia wear them on his head and the man got to tickle Sophia pantyhose cloaked legs. The man's wife had not heard you have agreed to the same at home.
his wife thought it was demeaning. Wives get at home easily, when men get to take our kinks elsewhere. So they can go back to the basic sex at home.
Sofia feels a bit like a therapist. Most of the customers are in their fifties and older men.
I am sorry, if wishes can't be told at home. If the wish is so innocent a thing as pantyhose, a corset top or a boots, and it can be sometimes to implement? Does not require very much to make my partner happy yourself. A man could then take someone's wife fantasy.
a strip club to visit Sofia in the opinion, however also the kind of people whose relationship is happy.
– to Them the club is a way to have fun.
the strip club as customers has also been a woman.
the Best tip I've received from women.Eric Nopanen / unsplash many seek intimacy
a Couple of years ago Sofia started to do work also sugar girl. He meets on business trips, mainly in middle-aged men a few times a month and billing for the night or the evening and night 200-500 euros. He does not sell directly to sex, but I do have sex with men, if you want to.
– Choose my clients, and I don't do anything I don't want to. I don't get the sheets less than 500 euros. One six year old with a man I was, though, that on a date no sex, but she was so pleasant that I wanted to have sex with her. He didn't pay for it.
Many customers get Sofia thinks primarily of intimacy.
– in the Armpit sit where, stroked and arms feeling.
Sofia estimates that half of the customers is reserved. Sometimes Sofia selling customers used underwear 30-50 euro price.” People has become a cheap”
Sofia has started recently, also a camgirl's work, for stripping the work are decreased.
Demand has fallen during the last year. People still need face-to-face intimacy, but the people have become cheap.
Camgirl means online to watch a live show, that picture of the computer's camera. Sofia has a camgirl's work until a couple of months of experience and revenues are still small.
– set the computer so that I can sit in bed näteissä underwear. Take off clothes as the customers pay. If customers get attract private, it makes more money.
a strip club Sofia made a 15 minute private show from the net for 30-40 euros and fetishes a little extra on top, but the camgirl paid to tip can be at a minimum of 20 cents.
at Best, the Sofia is made of the erotic work in a couple of tons per month. He has noticed, that by charging more to pleasing customers and better treatment. Sofia has also a day job.”Safe ways of carrying out their own fantasies”
Sofia keep the erotic work, as the role and throwing myself seems easy and he is anyway sexual people. Worker role is however different than your own I.
– I am Me and Sofia is Sofia. When the makeup and now, I'm wearing sofia's role, leave the personal self outside the room.
Customers with Sofia seeks to have these dreams of women and offer safe ways of carrying out their own fantasies. Her sexuality is human biology, the psyche for the important and important part of a relationship. He advocates state brothels, because he believes that as safety improves, human trafficking and sex work generated tax revenue for the state.
sofia's opinion, his work is not very demeaning.
– I have all the time the reins and the client need to accept the terms. I'm the customer what he wants, but on my own terms. I'm open-minded feminist, green vassar and suvakki whore. If you're going to criticize me, can think about whether your relationship all right.”Older women are even more markets”
the Work has not been a problem either sofia's boyfriend.
– When we met, I told him already in the early stages, that I do this kind of work. Him I get to do what I want. He is even worse feminist than I am.
the Couple has been together for four years. They have an open relationship, so both get to have sex also with other people.
Sofia intends to continue the erotic work as long as the enthusiasm is enough. Aging is not he to prevent in the field.
– for Older women is even more market. 20-40 years of age factors is a lot. If one goes to a strip club, a 10 is coming to the farm. Older women have less supply. One likes the daughter, second mother and someone's grandmother.