Lord, 47, lost her mother at a young age, developing anorexia and lost the credit of his people: When I got my own horse, felt that I had come home

Hevoskouluttaja Lord Särkelä, 47, can the school be granted custody of my difficult horses. It suits him, for he believes that what's broken näisempi people have ever had, the easier he understands animals.

Dubai international International Horse Fair -in the crowd reacts.

the five-year arabialai sorry, I had just tried to kick me etujalallaan. Stallion trot in vivid's steps around me followed by a few kick attempt.

the Stallion was acting like a spoiled brat.

Finally, it rose to its hind legs, making the rope cling to it etujalkaan. Remove the rope, using a firm grip.

chuckled the horse tricks. At the same time I explained to the audience in English into the microphone, that the horse believes that a person is a predatory animal.

We have eyes in front, like predatory animals. The horse thinks we are behaving aggressively.

I Continued, that this interview was with a horse can learn to communicate when you only know what you're doing.

the Horse needs time and patience. Trust and training is built on the ground, not the horse.

Audience probably thought that the agitated horse to kill that daring woman, whose mouth constantly. But I was all the time one step ahead. A safe distance should.

Tomi Gullans

I was invited to Dubai for that hevosmessuille to show my skills stallion of reading and training. I also like lectures on horse behaviour.

in Dubai, usually only men deal with the horses, especially stallions.

Now it was my time to shine. I enjoy every fiber of my being.

the united arab emirates I think they took good care of. Ride, food and a skyscraper hotel was the last on. I felt like a princess.

the Sheikhs would not allow me to carry even their own travel bags. Didn't help, even though how I said that the position my own.

I also Got in my back pocket a lot of international contacts.

I've always liked abroad. Younger living in the united states a couple of years.

the Finnish small cup of municipalities have not been for me. Here have to hide energi syyttäkin, some of you don't experience me as a threat.

I've always been soihduntuoja. Take courage to do things, and I'm not whining.

Tomi Gullans

Father wanted a boy. When that didn't happen, he raised me like a son.

my Father was the elephant in the living room: he used alcohol.

my Mother was the good girl syndrome. To understand it until later, when I was a graduate therapist. Good people get sick was subjecting himself and niellessään everything.

six years old, I became a horse-fancier, and I began to dream of their own horse.

I Had always been an animal lover. I always try to save all the animals, even the maimed birds.

We had at home a real zoo: budgies, parrots, aquarium fish, turtles, guinea pigs, cats and dogs.

the Summer was the day my uncle in the barn, brushing and milking cows. Animals have always been my protection, especially in difficult moments.

I've been getting spikes and knives in my back many times.

the Barn when I came to kindred women might say that now, take that cow shit at home until I can get you properly properly smell it.

I have little criticism, and to me has been nasty. It has hurt so much.

Taru Särkelä home album

I Had, unfortunately, also see animal mistreatment both at home and in the world of horses.

my Father was cruel to animals. Maybe he took his own bad feelings to them.

many Times I stood in the animal and the animal beater. Times treat my horse galloped harness racing. I know that it will receive punishment for it in the garage after reaching the. I ran at the track in the garage to stop it – to no avail. I had to witness the assault.

Maybe such events contributed to the fact that I got sick as a teenager with anorexia. I ate in only piimäkakun fragments and coffee. The gym became my second home. One day I kick off the ground at the gym.

even Though I was sick, I realized that the direction had to change. It was hard because the anorexia had been the only thing I was able to control. I made my determination.

I Was a 17-year-old, when my mother died. My mother had cancer, but he died of medical malpractice of blood poisoning.

I Stayed to live with dad. He was often gone trip their. I was scared to be alone in a big house, and no one was with me.

I Stayed in actually abandoned. I gained in three months ten pounds.

after Mom died about the time I remember only a little. Years go by as in a fog. Then I left the au-pair would be Florida.

Tomi Gullans

the Other children of shepherding, however, was not my thing. I liked better the family of parrots and a doberman dog, which I trained. The day I parrot travel everywhere with me, even grocery shopping. At night it slept with me under a blanket.

I Returned to Finland and I trained as a personal trainer. I opened my own gym and work out too much, hulluimpina times up to 35 hours a week.

Competition bikini model championships and I was also interested in model work. I eventually, however, remained in the field. The present I just feel like to watch: blonde without a brain.

I was happy alone, and I didn't need anyone in my life. At the time kicksini come to boxing and kick boxing.

Only when I later had my own horse, I felt that I had come home. Now I have two horses, with whom I have worked patiently to work. Care of animals gives me great satisfaction and joy. At the same time for me it is therapy.

an Important turning point was also when I met the current husband Energy . He is my counterpart, my soul mate. He was the person in front dare for the first time to cry. It happened five years ago.

Tomi Gullans

Today, I spent more time with animals than with people. My trust in people is gone, but the betrayal of the feeling is back.

I Did more than 20 years working in the service sector. I was also studying functional medicine and I worked in that department.

Eventually, the student's own initiative in horse anatomy and biomechanics. I haven't been to any official hevoshoitajan or coach training.

the work of the horse trainer, because I have animals with sensitive sensor and processing skills. Customers often say that you're the first person who thinks of the horse first.

the purpose of Life is to be with animals and to teach people to understand them better.

I Hope to be able to reduce horse mistreatment. We should understand that the animals are working genetic. They have emotions and instincts.

We should remember that the animal is different than human.

horse handling skills is still less. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people forcing the horse to do things. Charm is not the case.

the first thing is the horse confidence. With the horse also likes to make nice things, spend time and communicate.

a Horse is not an object or sports equipment, but a living, powerful and delicate exhaust the animal. People should be security.

the Horse, give respect and trust can not be bought. It can, if you understand it and is it fair.

Tomi Gullans

When people on your own behavior ”breaks” a horse, always follow problems.

the Modern riding, for example, is far from what a horse's life really should be. Spurs drilling on the side, the mouth torn to bits and the whip had hit. I can no longer watch horse racing on tv.

I don't use the school as I or my wrist as I rode bit. Horse's mouth is very sensitive and the head is the majority of the horse's balance.

the school as I backed the horse runs usually free without any string or cloth. The rod I use just my hand as an extension of the

to View and examine the horse holistically. It includes knowledge of anatomy, biomechanics and nutrition.

When I get misunderstood and abused horse with the connection, I get crying. It is lovely to see, when a 500-pound horse to relax and calm down. Nothing beats the feeling when a horse comes near me and put his mouth on my shoulder and blows in my neck warmly.

the White lipizzaner horse was Incitato Granit was initially timid and skittish. Now, after two years, the same horse is relaxed, playful and obedient. It's also a lot of tricks.

I Have received into my life the second your soul mate. That horse should be in my arms, if it would fit.

the Thing is published for the first time 10.11.2018.