When the us Jora Trang had 11-year-old, an unknown man raped her in the bathroom at school. Jora was just a child, and not understand what was happening. That's why he couldn't do anything to prevent the work.
I didn't scream or cry, I just keep my eyes shut. I stayed in the bathroom all the rest of the day and I feel dirty, used and very confused.
Jora didn't tell me anything about what happened to his family, because he didn't know how to explain what happened. Half a year from the dreadful act of violence, however, raised in the air words: Jora had become pregnant.
I had no idea that I could have gotten pregnant from what happened. I don't even know what pregnant meant!
my Breasts grew and my hips spread, but I thought that I evolved in the same way as my friend. But half a year later, I know, when something moved in my stomach.
Jora was scared out of my mind, but the courage to tell her feelings to her parents until a month later. Parents took Joran to the doctor, who said the girl was 7. pregnant.”my Daughter's birth my life was a fantastic experience,”
the Family wanted to hide the pregnancy and Joran was forced to drop out of school.
Parents did not give her daughter to leave the house and believe Joran's little brother the intention to adopt a child. Jora understand that the parents raised her children as his own.
well, despite All that my pregnancy was a beautiful experience. When my belly grew, I felt proud of myself. I feel beautiful because my body inside great things will happen.artwork image ALL OVER PRESS
Joran into labor without he even realized it. He didn't have much pain. The mother took her daughter to the hospital and Jora gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
my Daughter, Meggy the birth was the best experience. The doctor handed him to me and he was perfect. I can't describe in words the joy I felt in that moment.
the Joran family was not as excited.
I Looked at my mother and my aunt, who stood in the corner of the room looking miserable. I can only imagine how difficult they must have been watching a 12-year-old to give birth, Jora told reporters.
Joran's mother had made a decision: I'm ashamed to avoid Meggy raised her adopted daughter, and Joran as a sister. First Jora agreed to the arrangement, but in practice it was difficult for her to give up motherhood.
I don't let anyone else build a parent that belongs to a relationship with him. I was the first six months out of school to take care of him, and it went as naturally.
When Jora went back to school, he spent all night with her daughter.
the World she was my sister, but I treated Meggy, always as a daughter.”at First my daughter did not accept the truth”
Jora was 19 years old when he decided to make a lie the end.
– my Father had fought in the Vietnam war and suffered from severe post-traumatic stress disorder, which is why he imagine all the planning of his murder. I was afraid for my daughter safety. When I got my license, decided that it was our chance to leave.
I Arrived to the school in the middle of the school day, but the teacher said that the Meggy could go with you. I said that I'm his mother and I take him. It was the first time I said it out loud.
Jora and Meggy from the shelter a half years and after they moved to San Diego, where Jora had received a place to study at the university. Jora had decided to start a new life without his family.
– Change was traumatic Meggy, as she still thought about, that my parents were his parents and my siblings, his siblings. For that reason, we went to see them once a month.
Jora told her daughter the way of things, until, when Meggy was 12 years old. Girl react with anger: he accused his mother of lying and wanted to deny the whole thing. Time with Meggy learn to accept it.
Years after, when I had told him, my job, the secretary told me that my daughter had called. I was amazed that he had invited himself to my daughter.artwork image ALL OVER PRESS
Joran had never had a chance to deal with it, how her daughter was conceived.
Only, when Meggy was gone to school, Jora was able to give for sore zel space. However, he decided not to let the rape define her life or how she saw her daughter.
– Meggy is a miracle, who was born in a horrible situation. So I tell my daughter. I don't see remorse, trauma or hardships, when you look at Meggy. I see only love.How close can help victims of sexual violence? Expert advises.
Story has been published for the first time 10.09.2016.