The pain must be acknowledged – not hammered away

"the Pain must be acknowledged – not hammered away"

"Caroline Ringskog Ferrada-Noli if ”Leaving Neverland”"

"This is a kulturartikel which is a part of Aftonbladet's opinionsjournalistik."

"before I see Leaving Neverland, I know what I should write about: the Present does not stand out with the pain."

"as soon As the pain appears, it is eliminated."

"Pain must always be answered, and the answer is that it is going away."

"When I lost my brother said the psychologist: to manage the unbearable pain is to be in it, otherwise it will be excruciating and the ways to escape from it will be all the more excruciating."

"This is about being in pain is a thought that has visited me several times in recent past. The contemporary era does not want to be in pain, but eliminate it."

"I think of it, when the swedes who fought for våldsapparaten IS not allowed to come home to Sweden to be judged according to cook right. I think of it in the wake of the Metoo – elimination is the answer to what hurts. Hanu002Fhon is to be removed. Both victims and perpetrators?"

"You can't be bothered with the shit."

"nMen ways trying to remove the pain hurts more than the reason. It is as if the whole of the present are as one of all the young women who cut themselves and together form the fresh statistics on who the mental health services recruit most from. The anxiety is going away. Even if the darkness is perhaps the smallest common denominator of the human being, it must not be."

"Push away is the first impulse when the word pedophile is blinking hard. Even for me. It is not possible to complain at people who do not remain in the darkness of Leaving Neverland. The pain becomes too great. I can't be in it. You may not do so to children!"

"But the darkness. Pedophilia is. In the media, around if people start to buzz about, never listen to Michael Jackson. There will be no sacrifice for me, because it is children's music, but the point is another."

"and, instead, to manage the world's evil that my baby handles its leksakshammare to knock down plastpluppar, knock down the pain, saying that it may not be, might say that it is a part of us? For it will be. Pushing away, leaving a in the short-term pleasure, but nothing has happened. Plastpluppar in gräll color available, so also the darkness of man."

"nOavsett if Jackson abused sexually on the boys in the movie, they were taken advantage of by him, but also of their mothers, where Jackson was a trampoline into a kändisvärld. A quick class trip where the ticket was child. There is a power relationship between the children's mothers and Jackson, where he again is the perpetrator. But also between the mothers and the children. They sell their children and Michael buy them, with only the pledge that he is a celebrity. How you twist it, the children are always the victims. The premise of the child and the adult is from the outset unequal. Being a parent is the exercise of power."

"I don't mean that you should not punish paedophiles. On the contrary. It is an obvious crime. Sickening. But more crimes have been committed here. It is brutal: To shamea a mother. That a mother can do wrong. But as the psychologist said, for that pain to be intelligible, it must be recognised. Perhaps this is the type of awareness raising a step to increase the child's status where the ultimate goal is equality with adults. The border must be found how to treat children."