It härzigs modes, says the mother. It smiles from the photos on the parlour wall. The modes liked "Baywatch," the lifeguard series. It also wanted to wear a bright red bathing suit.
The modes is now 16 years old. It lives in the Loryheim in Münsingen. In a "community home for behavioral problems, gifted young women". It is in the plug-in letter. In a home for the "most Difficult of the most Difficult of the Difficult". Director Eliane Michel Says.
The mother read the sentence in the newspaper and was shocked. "Our daughter is not difficult," she says. "She is a victim. And we are a traumatized family."
A village on the edge of the Canton of Bern. A road, a house, at the entrance to a wind game. The woman sitting at the table in the living room, next to her husband. You want to tell the story of your daughter. But you don't want to be recognized.
The family came years ago from the city to the village. Life is cheaper here. The parents were Hippies, almost certainly. "We've always had it good up there," says the mother. "But the modes just never found the right connection."
"modes, was brought to men, and raped by several adult men."The mother
The woman is small and lively and talks a lot. The man is tall and steady and nothing says fast. He looks through the window. Rain drops run down. Behind the house is a trailer.
It began in such a way that the parents made for a controversial teacher. They were the Only ones in the village. "We were like parrots. This helped the Meitschi not to find friends." Contact of it was joyful. Went to the volleyball club. Played in the the village of music. With made in the theatre.
It had a girlfriend. But moved away soon.
In the Badi
the summer of 2016. For the first Time, the girl was without a mother in the Badi. It was 13, alone, standing there in the Badi, perhaps in the red bathing suit, looked around. "You could pick," says the mother. And since you met this boy. "Pretty, casual, loose sayings, and threw money around." The härzige modes met a härzigen Schnüggu. "Schüggu, so she called all the boys that she liked." He called himself Peter. Swiss, the language, the dialect of the area.
she was uncertain. He was strong. She fell in love with him. He led you.
"We realised nothing. Only that she was sometimes sad." It's fall was slow. And since the modes of your mother told at once that it had been raped. "She was afraid that she is pregnant, so she told it to us." It was a cry for help, but not the whole truth.
"We can make against the third party care nothing, because we had to give the custody of law."The father
In the week before the autumn holidays, the girl went on the school trip. The phone left it at home. They had a phone, but not from their Hippie parents. "Unfortunately, the gross paid to the father of a," says the mother.
When she was gone, looked at the mother to the phone. "I've never done that before." She read the Chats, messages. "When I think of it, I could puke." It went to the body of the girl to have Sex, perversions. Peter was not the love of a friend. He was a Loverboy.
A lover boy seeks young, often insecure girl. Plays the big love. Forcing you to have Sex with other men. It is of the essence – this is the target in the Prostitution . In the end, he disappears without a trace. A Loverboy is airs a pimp with Don Juan, is it on a Website for Concerned. There are also the parents were informed.
In the autumn holidays, the girls drove me to his old girlfriend and her mother in the holidays. You showed the diary, which had led them. "As we learned the details," says the mother.
"she was dressing with any type of drugs. Was put under pressure, mental and physical." The parents should learn nothing, by the fed.
"The modes was brought to men, and raped by several adult men." At night, if you stayed in the trailer behind the house, as she had done as a child, she was brought in without the parents being aware of it. Once she was sent to Oensingen on the dash.
Once she awoke in the morning, on the edge of a forest, beaten and raped. "Then she called her guy that she brought home. She realized that he was the mastermind. The Top Bastard." And then the father speaks, for once: "As you found out, however, is broken for a world together."
The final solution
The village where the parents live is small. Relatively view over the country in a secluded, far away. The House: "Our Häxehüsli." Who needs cell phone reception, needs to rise to the upper floor. "It is often said that this is a perfect world," says the mother. But the voice is not.
The parents had to get help. Got to the child and adult protection authority (Kesb). Department Berner health, Department of Act 212. Several experts confirm that they are familiar with the story of the girl. And you consider credible and typical for the phenomenon of Loverboy.
The Kesb made a threat message. The parents had to find a place, for the protection of the daughter, in a new place, not in the area. They found him in the children's emergency ward lock Matt in Bern. "Everything went well, until she joined the group. Since you lost the thread. Hung at the riding hall around, was towed back. We didn't notice it, it crashes."
Remained the Loryheim. "A prison for young people," says the mother. A year ago. First, the closed Department. Between 21 and 22 o'clock confinement behind the steel door. Per month, three times two-hour visit. Before: Card Control, Felting. "They don't even have a mirror in the room, only a film. It has almost broken the heart, our child there to lock up," says the mother.
Then the semi-open group: "Now the daughter, hours way out was with us and was allowed to come once a day to go home."
Without custody rights
The Lory is a large apparatus, the therapeutic offer is extensive. A place in the closed ward cost per day 750 francs. The parents stress that they did not want to make the home bad. But they find that their daughter had a post-traumatic disorder, they should be treated in a centre for minors trauma patients However, there is only one such place in Switzerland, in the Eastern part of Switzerland. And there it was no place for you.
In the Lory the modes now lives in the open plan living group. You should not have a say what is good for the Meitschi. "We would have gladly taken home, but the Institution says that it still needs to be longer to care for a stranger." And now the father speaks: "there's nothing We can do, as we had to return the custody of law."
parents looking for a place for the modes. They hope that the daughter once said the whole truth. But until today, she protects the man who made her life a living hell. "She is not ready to make a statement."
It härzigs modes, says the mother. "He's got her totally brainwashed."
Created: 14.05.2019, 17:22 PM