After seven years of relationship is the Danish singer Inez Gavilanes, which is known from the popgruppen Sukkerchok, and her boyfriend, Nicky, gone from each other.
It tells the 42-year-old Inez Gavilanes to Ekstra Bladet.
- We are gone from each other for a little month's time ago. I think it is right that we need it here, but I must be honest and say that it was not my decision, " she says.
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the Couple have a small daughter, who will soon turn three years old, and therefore it has been extra hard to go each to his for Inez Gavilanes.
- I have had some very sexist attitudes that, when you have put children in the world, so is it to the its day end. It has been my religion. It was him, I chose to do it with, so that is why I have always thought that it should work for any price, but it has gone up for us, that we are too different and that the differences have become too large. We have grown apart, unfortunately, " she says, and continues:
- I have wanted to be a nuclear family, and it has in one way or another been associated with something shameful for me, that it is not, as I had wanted. So when it became clear that we would go from each other, I was hit by a sense of failure, because it was far from my self image. But even though I have felt shame and guilt, and I will return it and make it into a strength and find pride in it instead of be ashamed of myself, that I now need to do it yourself. It takes a lot to be a parent on your own all of a sudden, and the stand itself, she says further.
Inez is a part of the popgruppen Sukkerchok, which was resurrected this year after a ten year break. Photo: Mogens Flindt
even Though Inez Gavilanes is still affected by the breach, which is still very new, she is confident about the future.
- I'm going in and out of it. First, there was a dread about all the internship around our child. It would be able to get to work? Where should we stay? We need to sell the house? All internship are dropped in place without major problems, and we have agreed on it, and there have been great discussions, " she says, and continues:
- We are both agreed that we of course want our child the best. We are going to stay close to each other, and we are going to cooperate as parents. We have an intention to land it here in a friendship that can be even stronger than our relationship, says Inez Gavilanes, who at the same time says that she will continue to live in the couple's previous house, while the ex-boyfriend moving into a new home only ten minutes away.
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- I'm grateful for, that I may dwell in the house. In the house we have views out to the neighbor's fields and cows, and I am happy for the peace that is out here. I was very upset at the idea that I should not be there any more, says the singer, who especially get mind on something else in the force of the work with Malene Qvist and Kat Stephie Holst, who constitute the remaining part of the popgruppen Sukkerchok.
- It keeps me up, is our Sukkerchok-project, it is a respite. The project got a mavepuster because of corona. But we have the first few meetings in the weeks and running loose on the project, now that the world gets a little more normal, she says further.
Ekstra Bladet has been in touch with Nicky, who informs, that he has no further comments on the breach.