anal Sex is high on the particular men's sexual wish list. Button so that the solid appears numselege on women's bucket-list.
It can be satisfied by see, for example, statistics from pornosites, and on various more or less serious studies about people's sexfantasier.
nevertheless, putting a great deal of women buttocks.
Studies show that about 50 percent have tried it, while no fewer cultivate it on a regular basis.
But what's so some women to have anal sex? It has some american researchers set out to find out.
In the study ‘Perceptions of Anal Intercourse Among Heterosexual Women: A Pilot Qualitative Study’ in the scientific journal ‘Sexual Medicine’ tells of 20 women aged 20-50 about their analerfaringer.
the Participants were interviewed by a female researcher in about half an hour. The 20 women all had had anal sex within the past three months.
And it appears that many factors are at play when one decides for the anal: in Control of the situation, trust to the partner, personal pleasure, sexual curiosity, and courage in the experiments.
Furthermore, the study shows that most of the women believe that anal sex is frowned upon and tabuiseret in relation to norms, and that, therefore, they rarely share their numseerfaringer and desires with friends and the healthcare system. Which is a scientists at heart, for as they state, is unprotected anal sex associated with higher risks in relation to HIV.
the Women had had between 4 and 28 sex partners, and the average number of analsexpartnere was 2.
Half reported anal sex less than once a month, and 15 percent reported anal sex on the menu every week.
Just the kind of numbers is perhaps not so interesting, because the group is so small. However, it is more rewarding to look at analmotiverne.
Them, explain the researchers, thus, where HAI means heterosexual analsamleje:
the Above shows, overall, that a variety of factors have an impact on what, in the end, the women get to practice anal sex: Norms, attitudes, knowledge, experiences, desires, etc.
Here are some of the most striking and consistent motivators:
Porn is seen as the main external påvirkningsfaktor, according to women's opinions. Pornoen have influence on both society's norms and the individual woman's negative and positive positions for anal sex, even if not all women even watch porn.
‘I've never seen porn where anal sex is so nice out’, reports a woman, while another said: ‘I saw some porn, where anal sex was the focal point, and I could really like.’
A third woman believes that porn affects the sight of anal sex and women negative:
‘Porn objektificerer women, and they appear as free goods on the shelf. I assume, therefore, that women who want to practice anal sex, are looked down a little.’
Other participants believe that analporno is to normalize the numsesex.
A part of women had a negative view on anal sex, before they tried it. They were either afraid of possible pain, or that they would be looked down on as cheap. Others were more positive to start with, especially because they were sexually curious:
‘It seems as if it is bold and exploratory to try to find new ways and places of getting erotic pleasure.’
And a part tells, that the with the passage of time and experience has changed the sight on anal sex to be more positive. And so, they appear also, that other women should try anal sex.
Almost all of the participants reported a less positive analdebut, typically painful, and a part felt pressured into it by the partner.
‘He hammered the actually just. He said nothing at first. And it was enough, therefore, it did hurt.’
Anyway, it appears also that they learned to enjoy anal sex, as they relaxed and became familiar with it:
‘I think it is one of the kind of things that can be really rewarding, once you are comfortable with it.’
Many of the participants told that veninders negative views on anal sex had affected their own, and they therefore do not talked about own analerfaringer with girlfriends and friends - just as they also believed that society's standards in relation to sport in 2’eren is judgmental:
‘I feel there is much shame and stigma around anal sex in society, for it is a dirty place, and people do not know how to tackle it.’
another says: ‘anal Sex is still taboo, it is more something like a prostitute or porn star will do. Or the wife will try a time or two with clenched teeth just to keep it out.’
Although many believe that the standards probably discourage other women from trying it, they did not even, that the same standards have held them even.
Why do they do it then?
The most widely used motifs are: the Partner's pleasure, their own pleasure and sexual adventure. Only one participant reported not to the parties ' desire is the cause for the anal actions.
Some do even most of my bf's sake: ‘It is something I do for his sake, it is something I on a or other ways to sacrifice for him.’
Others do it for own pleasure:
‘It's a completely different feeling, and it gives powerful orgasms. Yes, I enjoy it really.’
Some use of anal sex as a birth control method, other as an alternative to vaginalsex during menstruation. Only a few women report that anal sex most happens on their initiative, while for restens they occur on the common or the man's initiative.
Furthermore, it appears that it is most likely for the women to grow the anal sex, when they feel they have control over the process, when the man is not just drums on, he asks if it is ok.
And so, it would seem analsex clearly the most in fixed relation, where women generally feel that they are more confident to say to and from - which stands in contrast to the one-night stand. Confidence, security and control are, in other words, the basic elements of women's desire to cultivate and enjoy the anal play.
‘I've been with a lot of guys, and the guys that I've done it with are the guys that I'm closer to at least, so it's more exciting when it's with someone that I could trust a lot and—like I know that if I wanted to stop, they'd stop. Or I know that they'd try to go slow instead of just stick it in. So that's exciting when I have a guy that I can super trust with that.’
on the whole, communication about sex and relationships to give women a sense of control and thus also the desire for anal sex:
‘Yes, I feel safe enough to bring new ideas on the field, to listen to his, to respond to my feelings and to be in on it or not. I feel listened to and respected.’