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Coronavirus, the children are listening to us
IN THESE days in which each one of us, is showing that pasta is made, there we are exercising in the run-up to the best way to say to the children, as if they were antennas always turned off, that come back to command of us adults. Behind these claims, there is the subtle belief that the children would be sensitive to the words and not to the “climates” that you create around them and that their level of understanding is proportional to age, then a child of five years old understands approximately one tenth of the one that includes a fifty-year-old. Of course this is a simplification, at least for the quantitative aspects, this is certainly not the principle.

From here, the race to explain to them, in our own way, of course, the chaos that you are experiencing around them, an explosion of irrationality promoted by the same adults who would like to explain to little ones that there is nothing to worry about, maybe after a day of discussions and apocalyptic in the presence of the children themselves. There is no infallible technique to explain to the little ones what happens in the surrounding world, because it is our behaviour that conveys to them the thought of the great, the certainty of how things are. A mother, an adult and rational, moved to the right child corresponding feelings, vice versa a person impulsive and prey to every fear can also save you the trouble of talking to the child, there is no need.

Yesterday I went to the curiosity of a shopping centre, two mothers with related children were looting all the shelves of canned food. It seems to me there is more to add. It is evident that we consider the children as creatures willing to swallow everything uncritically, but, above all, we do not consider that our ambiguity fills them with anguish, even when we are animated by very good intentions.

A little girl of 2 years and a half years he had lost his mother a few months before, a cancer of the lymphatic system. The father, rightly in serious trouble, he wanted to know how to say it to your daughter. He was advised to say that the mother was on that star, and that sooner or later he would come back. The girl showed tears, real anxiety attacks united states to strong states of melancholy. Of course, we are not sure of what was going on in the head of that small, but we can attempt to articulate a fiction, because this is what can take psychology, fiction. Better if they are well approximated.
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