The Bachelorette-Jenny was bullied hard in middle school - dare to talk about it only in the twenties: the death threats and trash throwing

The Bachelorette-a series of familiar Jenny Heleniusta was bullied hard in middle school. Video Jenny told me about his affair, which is still very fresh.

, 35, came in the autumn known as Finland's first bachelor girl, ie the bachelor, you don't.

Jenny Helenius was seen as Finland's first bachelor that. Pasi Liesimaa

Turku-born Jenny grew Pöytyällä and went there in a small school in the area-degrees. High school he moved to as the only student in their school. Soon Jenny had the victim of bullying. He was left out of the group of friends, called names and talked about bad. The eighth grade boys began to notice Jenny, and it caused nasty situations with some of the girls.

I was Not given a place on the bus or they were chewing gum or rubbish on the site. And at that point, when you begin to become mobile, so also began all sorts of nasty messages. Also killing bricks through our window a few, Jenny recalls evening magazine.

Jenny has gotten over the bullying, but for a long time it affected his self-image and human relationships. Pasi Liesimaa

At that time, Jenny did not dare to say to bullies. He opened up about bullying until after their twenties to their parents.

–Has it affected your self-image and set challenges for my self-esteem. Over the years self-esteem has slowly risen. I think that the last five years I've had it, what I really am, Jenny to consider.

Today, Jenny dares to say their opinion, and doing it boldly.

–When you finally have a voice and dare to speak, so I have also used it. There might have been a little too eager. But maybe it will come to compensate for it, when sometimes there is no dared argue, Jenny to consider.

Bullying effects were also reflected in human relationships.

–pair relations have been so insecure and I've done a little of it myself, that even if would be all right, so I'm searching for searched for another of their mistakes. I've decided the relationship before you actually come to the hurt, Jenny to consider.

through the Years, Jenny's self-esteem has improved bullying after.

in Recent years I've heard so much about people and new acquaintances the fact that really I'm a good guy and I'm beautiful. Probably this age, too, that self-assurance little by little, but is with it have to work with, Jenny said.

Jenny said she had been making self-esteem with their work. The first time he was seen on television in 2016 the Bachelor series, when Juha Rouvinen find himself a partner. At the time Jenny finished second in the finals. Decision program leaving wasn't Jenny in any way self-evident.

I Wondered for a long time, that's what this will be and will I be able to go there, because I know that it would be so much barking online discussion forums and in public, Jenny said.

getting Used to the public

the Bachelorette series the figureheads of the other Jenny's fall again into the public eye. Jenny told mentions his surprise of how much people have identified him and come talk to the city.

–there Have been insane when complete strangers have come to say that they have got so much out of the series and are hoping to find myself a real and a good guy who deserves me. Lovely said that in their opinion someone has to earn, but, Jenny said.

Positive comments in addition, Jenny has been getting also unpleasant comments.

–I Am normal weight women, but have received a lot of feedback that I'm too plain and doesn't understand why I have been selected into the program. I think it is horrible that your character be called. I have among other things been called the raging, I do so alone and empty, Jenny said.

Jenny was criticised for the program, including the fact that her man criteria would be too high.

I said I wanted a handsome and funny guy, who treats me very well, and who I want to be good. I think it is so wrong, that it is said to my demands was too high. Is it right that so many people probably just do it something. And then they'll be divorced in a few years or are really unhappy in the relationship. I'd rather be then on my own, Jenny to consider its eligibility criteria.

Today she knows how to give snide little comments go in one ear out and focuses on getting his positive feedback.

I Thought how much these people have to have things going wrong when they write like that. However, I have received wildly positive feedback that dare I say what I want to do with my life and from a man and give you my opinion, Jenny said.

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