Niina Kurkinen-Nyholm is sometimes startled by the dinner party answering the question what his life has been epochal.
– When you realize that no one can make me happy, to hear last year cotton wedding anniversary spent, serene and happy, nancy's response.
When I finished happiness, looking from other people perspective and my perspective changed, he explains now.
after everything has been different.Grounding
In 2014, Nancy was sick of the familiar use of the diplomatic situation. The relationship had ended. Nina was again forced to give up a dream of his to get a permanent relationship. Perhaps add children.
– It was my rock bottom for me. I was almost literally on his knees a great fashion shop in the back room Louboutinien in the middle. I simply could not understand, why do you always end up in the same situation.
His dating partner had been very good men.
I was Wondering, should I look in the mirror and think about it a little deeper. I realized I needed help to do it.
Online niina's eyes to pop us Katherine Woodward Thomas created by a five-tier difference-the software. Actress Gwyneth Paltraw take advantage of it parted, Chris Martin . The aim was to find out the difference from the total, devoid of bitterness and a minimum of haavoin.
I wanted To try it and I bought the online course the same way.
the Motivation was high.
I Was 40 years old and divorced, my children, Butch , 21, father years earlier. Actually, since I had hoped to find a partner with whom it would be good to have, I could get married and have another child.
He immersed himself in the exchange rate.
I Began to understand the way I become attached and why I act in a relationship in a certain way. I realized also that I had a tendency to codependency. I had put your happiness second to power and the hands.Niina Kurkinen-Nyholm enjoys adult learning. He left high school at age 16 in the middle, when the model of work you took to Paris. The world she thrived in. PINK bröijer feels right
Three months after the completion of the course, Nancy agreed to a date. The man was Danish Nikolaj Nyholm , whose work brought from time to time in Finland.
the Man became a good vibe as soon as the first date.
I told Nikolaj that by the time my first date to the bathroom thinking that now is a good!
the Feelings took her away. Love Helsinki-Copenhagen -between flourished.
nancy's friends noticed Nikolaj when they meet, that they fit together. Nancy estimates that they combine the same type of energy, the rhythm, the way to be.
– with Anyone has never been such. This love should feel like. This is the right thing. Earlier in my relationship had always been something of uncertainty or torque. Us commitment was immediately evident.
They were married in Finland in August 2017.
– we have a total of four children, namely child a dream too came true. the Viola is the 17th, Louis 16 - Viggo is 12 years old. My son's Spongebob already live on your own.
reconstituted the pattern runs smoothly. The Start-up entrepreneur working Nikolaj is a partner at e-sports team of their own in the host and a global tournament system company.
He has been every other week in Finland and another in Denmark, where Nancy used about every other month.
Children can have moments when his father only to himself, when I'm not present all the time. But we have a good atmosphere even when we're together. In between are lovely and warm.Return to school
niina bottom of the contact describe the actual life situation is not really anything left.
Not even move. Niina and her sister sold their 12-year run of his Ninas movement in the spring of 2017.
before that, Nancy started psychology studies at the open university. High school left him in the middle at the age of 16, when the model of work you took to Paris and keep the world in 1997.
I Studied for the first time in my life properly. It is just wonderful!
– Between, though, I have doubted if I can do this. But then the exam comes a good grade. It gives a new kind of certainty.Erovalmentaja
Studies support his work on human relations and erovalmentajana. Niina graduated 2017 certified for erovalmentajaksi the method of god and Councious Uncoupling -book author, psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas's education.
I Got a course of self so strong experience and benefits that I want to share it with others. I help people to resign so that they would be a difference of as little inconvenience as possible. It is mostly alongside of, not on the advice of the allocation of the above.
Niinalla's reception in Helsinki, but the customers are - thanks to the network - even in Australia and the united states.
I'm the end of the spring to open a practice also Denmark, where I'm going to work a few days a month.for Half a year at a time
nancy's home is in Helsinki. Horses and dressage are the way of life for him, which he got sytykkeen already over ten years old. At the garage he used five times a week and aim for next season to compete in the demanding classes.
my Home is there, where two horses. When I left, leaving the whole caravan!
If etäliitto does not work, the housing arrangement will be re-evaluated.
at least we're happy now we're not the only kind of life know. Both have room to implement their own thing, though at times I feel that it would be nice to have more time together.
Previously, the idea etäsuhteesta was Niina abomination.
– however, I Have changed. I have another with panic, but from a desire to be with him. I can trust that he wants to be with me also in moments where we are not physically together.