"Malena Ivarsson remember the funniest question she had the premiere of her sexspalt in Aftonbladet huvudtidning"
"In 25 years, Malena Ivarsson responded to readers' sexfrågor in the Aftonbladet newspaper on Sunday."
"Now she moves into late also."
"– You give so much space to the economy, politics and sport, but it is not always one's own everyday life is full of questions. Almost always, it is filled with questions: ”Am I loved?” ”Can I love?” ”How have my relationships been like?” or ”I'm so tired of it all and feel so skuldfylld,” she says."
"Sexologist Malena Ivarsson, 69, has responded to readers' sexfrågor in Aftonbladet Sunday since 1993. Now she is here in the he also, with the start of the day."
"– It is this I burned for since I began, you must lift sexual problems and issues in order to make it easier for people, " she says."
"the Nature of the questions have of course changed over time."
" Oh, yes. In the beginning, there was not the internet. Today, there are very a lot of information online about the size, kroppsfrågor and how to have sex. Now I get more valuation issues: ”Shall I shake this relationship and to have a mistress?” or ”I am fond of a, but living in a relationship – what should I do?”. "
"– the Questions is also about the maturity and personal development. The idea is that many can identify with the author and get the help of the answers. It's like a gps for your own personal development."
"the Usual is that the reader wants to have a change and preferably that someone else will arrange the matter."
"– You look just at his outer life, for example, ”I have very boring, in my marriage, urtråkigt, it is so dead”. We often take for granted that a partner should give us a big dose of romance, sex and the meaning of life."
"There is a lot that can be improved with small means, says Malena Ivarsson."
" We need to give ourselves time. The big problem is often the desire, we need to listen more, we need to listen inwardly and to each other. You can't always think of the stock prices or how it feels in the body when you are longing for affection, or if you feel that you are alone and would like to have more sex."
"”Many restart their lives”"
"Of the more than 50 000 who married last year were 16 140 over 50 years. Most, 6 352, was 50-54 years of age when they married."
"– Then got married and lived together until one partner died, at the time, was not the life so long. Now I see that a lot of people restart their lives in the 50-55-year-olds."
"What is the most important when it comes to sex?"
"– Our focus on sex is so focused on the most intimate of the meeting, when you are close to each other and the sexual organs are active and the whole body is like electrified. This with sex need not be so isolated, that they use all of their senses and feel a kind of excitement for life, and is in line with the senses. You can love with your toes! proclaims she is."
"There is no question that is too stupid?"
" No, but I had a question once which was: ”Can you get pregnant by rolling around?”, says Malena and a good laugh."
"this is Malena Ivarsson"
"Occupation: Sexologist.nÅlder: 69.nFamilj: Children and friends (friends can be of anything, or how?).nBor: Stockholm.nAktuell: Answer readers ' sexfrågor every Friday in Aftonbladet with the start of the day."