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This reaction to relationship problems can ruin your entire love life

The question:</p>"I am considering separating from my husband of 20 years.

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This reaction to relationship problems can ruin your entire love life

The question:

"I am considering separating from my husband of 20 years. We're just too different. While my husband can deal with a problem for hours and first make plans or calculations before he implements something, I'm more of a spontaneous, creative and flexible person. It's not that we don't have anything in common. We like to play sports and travel with our dogs. But for the last four or five years we've been living in a flat share. Now I'm wondering if...

The couples counselor replies:

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