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“These people learned early on not to take their own wishes and feelings into account”

Do you know what a harmony seeker is? Does that sound likeable? The word "nerd" probably has a negative connotation to most of us.

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“These people learned early on not to take their own wishes and feelings into account”

Do you know what a harmony seeker is? Does that sound likeable? The word "nerd" probably has a negative connotation to most of us. But unlike their unpopular classmates from high school, harmony seekers tend to be pretty popular. They are not concerned with getting the best grades and outdoing others. They don't act selfishly, and in fact they don't offend anyone. So far, so wonderful? Not quite. The question is how far these harmony-loving personalities go in their desire for harmony. For some, in addition to the innate gentleness, there is an additional imprint in the parental home. In their childhood, these characters experience that they only receive attention if they meet the expectations of their caregivers. This "dear-child principle" often becomes a protective strategy in adulthood in order to gain recognition.

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