It's rarely completely over. What makes the ex so attractive

"Ex or never again sex", with this toast we poured ourselves mini schnapps called "Scharfer Hüpfer" as young people. The ex referred to the drinking process. When I think about it, this sentence also goes very well with Katja Lewina's new book. On the cover you can see a washed-out photo of the author, in which she, looking at the viewer defiantly, kisses a man, above it a red x and the title: "Ex". Lewina, born in Moscow in 1984, met ten of her so-called exes in the form of a “Kaputtness-Chronology”, one of whom was not in the mood to come to terms with the past (“Bock. Men and Sex” was the name of her second book).

Short affairs in Berlin are among them, as well as the first great love wasted at punk concerts and the father of her first child, with whom she now gets along splendidly. The underlying intention is clear to anyone who has ever lain on a therapist's couch:

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Gelle Uevlue: "Bv: 09 Iekle, i9 Zouuel nup vep ettep pu pekletaekeu heu". BnOuul, 090 Pelleu, 00 Bnlu.