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I no longer have contact with my father. Now he is dying. Should I report?

The problem: Verena* has not spoken to her father for many years.

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I no longer have contact with my father. Now he is dying. Should I report?

The problem: Verena* has not spoken to her father for many years. After a big family argument at Christmas, she only hears from her mother how her father is doing. The relationship between Verena and her father has always been difficult. He often interfered in his daughter's affairs, including insulting and humiliating her. There were also moments of conciliation, but basically nothing changed. Finally, the daughter turned away, disappointed and hurt.

Now the father is seriously ill and could die soon - and Verena doesn't know whether she should get in touch again. How could she solve this dilemma?

The expert's solution: "Many think there is ....

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