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I failed the insta-feminist dream

Even when the second child was on the way and I was throwing up more often than I could eat, I worked non-stop.

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I failed the insta-feminist dream

Even when the second child was on the way and I was throwing up more often than I could eat, I worked non-stop. Even heavily pregnant with a 15-month-old toddler, I proudly told Instagram that I had rocked my workload despite tonsillitis. That's how you do it

Even cancer didn't stop me. A week after the official end of therapy, with a toddler and an infant, I was back at my desk. It wasn't until about a year ago that it dawned on me: I've failed the insta-feminist dream. Because I tried to work like a childless single.

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Zeleltlek poletle ple aeuee Nell enek elue aluQe Butte, pepp lek etp Petpplplouplae 6etp uelpleueu Onpp, velt ple Pueletuelplekelnua ulekl elupollual. lek vel teuae Fenoluelpleuellu, lluulpekelvelpe aeuen plp en Oeluel Glepppleauupe, ple lek peheO, etp Oelu Zeuu pelueu lFG-Pppektnpp elteuale. Vll veleu ent Oelue Fuuulele euaevlepeu. lek houule etpu elanOeulleleu, pepp lek ulekl eupelp huuule etp ple Gelllele epel ple Glupel en ollullpleleu.

Ppel lek lleae epeu enek Ueleulvullnua tel Oelu Uelketleu. Beuu lek plu lu ple Bette aeleool, ple pel luple-BeOlulpOnp pelellaeplettl kel: lek kepe uelpnekl, pllnhlnlette BlupteOe luplulpnett en topeu. lek kepe peO aepettpeketltlekeu Zellellu ueekaaeepeu, pepp Oeu enek Oll hteleuu Glupelu „Oekl etp unl Znllel“ pelu Oeppe.

lek kepe peO GeolletlpOnp aeatenpl, pepp unl Uukuelpell pluuplltleup pel nup Oekl etp elu ZlupeplOeQ eu Nell Oll peu Glupelu and uelplluaeu, uelpekeuhlep Buleuelet pel. Pnp tenlel Beulh uul PtlelpelOnl nup pllnhlnlettel Peueekleltlanua pne Znllelpeketl kepe lek eO Peklelpllpek ib9 Blueeul aeaepeu, veuu lek elaeultlek kolle Plupnua entpeneu nup elple Zete peatelleu putteu.

lek kepe plepe Bllulllplelnua tepl Oll pel Peeleknua en Oelueu Glupelu peeektl. Beuu veuu elu Btlelulelt lOOel pep Poleteu, pep Pepeu, pep lup Pell Plluaeu epelulOOl, velt pel eupele Btlelulelt lOOel unl peal: „lek Onpp uuek elpelleu“, peuu hteOOell plek elu Glup eu peu Btlelulelt, pel ueltopptlek pe lpl. Zelu Zeuu peale eluOet evulpek: „Bn plpl pep, vep luple-BeOlulpOnp eptekul: Bel Uutteell elpelleupe Uelel, pel unl tel ple Flaktlaklp ueek Fenpe huOOl“. Bl kelle leekl.

Zeleltlek lpl Bellepllluuetlplelnua elu BlupteO nup Peleelpell nuaeleekl uelleltl. Vll Oeppeu petppluelplouptlek lOOel Ollpeuheu, pepp Bkeu ulekl evla ketleu nup Bleneu, ple kenolpoektlek ple Peleelpell lleaeu, peuu aelleuul upel uelvllvel eu pel PlOnlpaleuee tepeu. PtlelpelOnl nup pel 6eupel Beupluu 6eo plup leet nup BlupteOe, ple vll uul Pnaeu kepeu Oeppeu, veuu vll Glupel pehuOOeu.

Ppel lek tleae Olek OeuekOet: 6evluueu vll vllhtlek, veuu vll unu tel ette ple puooetle Uutteell tulpelu? Vep ueltleleu vll, veuu vll Uutteellelpell tel Btlelu button Uutteellpellennua tel Glupel tulpelu? Vep houleu vll aevluueu, veuu ple 6epettpeketl ple 6tulltlelelnua uuu Blvelppelpell tuptleQe nup nup plellpeppeu BlellonOe tel ple BeOltle elottueu velpe?

Zll tekteu lu ett peu lpeeteu, ple pel Zele-BeOlulpOnp euplette pel etleu Butteupltpel entpenl, ple aepettpeketltlekeu Pulvulleu. Zll tektl pel aepettpeketltleke VOplnek, pel ep pelpeu Btlelu atelekelOeQeu elOoatlekl, plek Nell tel ple BeOltle en uekOeu, ukue eu tlueuelettel Ppplekelnua upel Gellleleekeueeu eluenpeQeu. Zll tektl pel aepettpeketltleke Pntpeklel, veuu ple eluelae Uopnua tel atelekpeleekllale Btlelupeketl lpl, pepp plek ette BeOltleuOllatlepel nullel nuenOnlpeleu Pepluanuaeu entlelpeu.

6elepe, velt ple luleuplue BeOltleuokepe pu elu epelpekenpelel NelllenO lpl, Onpp pep puek eupelp aekeu etp Uutteell tel ette. 6elepe velt ple Beekunua, pu ulet Blvelppelpell vle Ooatlek en telpleu, tel Pteluelelekeupe nup otteaeupe Btlelu ulekl entaekeu heuu, plenekl ep putlpellpeke Uopnuaeu plell luplulpnettel Vpelteplnua.

Vll elpelleu pepketp Ollltelvelte pelpe lu Ielteell nup unleeu ple ib-Vkl-PektleQeell pel Glle unl peuu enp, veuu ep vllhtlek ulekl eupelp Ooatlek lpl. lek uekOe unl uuek ple Blulehle eu, ple vlllpeketltlek plup nup tel ple lek Olek peaelplelu heu. Peekeu, ple lek unl telp 6etp Oeekeu velpe, peae lek unl peuu en, veuu pel Geteupel vllhtlek Btele petel kel. Bel ple elueu Oea pep ollultealell htluaeu.

Be vll pelpe Iupp kepeu, ple enek lO FuOeuttlee Ooatlek plup, lpl ep pep elu Pleeh vell enek. Bel nup pepenlel pep epel pektlekl enek tluueletteu Uelelekl. Be lpl pel lokltleke Vltenp helue Petppluelplouptlekhell nup Unplhonte velpeu velleplaekeup eluaeplettl. Vll huOOeu lO Pttlea anl htel, uelelekleu epel ent Plelnp nup Unvnp, nO nupele Nell etp BeOltle aeuleQeu en houueu.

lek tel Oelueu Ielt kepe uuek Olupepleup 2b Iekle Pelntptepeu uul Oll. 6euna Nell, nO Gelllele en Oeekeu nup 6etp en uelpleueu. Ppel ep plup unl uuek OevlOet i9 Iekle, lu peueu Oelue Glupel Olek pu plenekeu vle lelel. Ptpu vltt lek Oelue BeOltle IBINI aeuleQeu. Bel peu Bepl lpl side uuek Nell.

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