Visiting dad complaints: Costs 650 an hour to see my son

- I have fought for my son, against the system and my ex in 2-3 years.

- And I have gone completely down the stress and is on sick leave.

this is the sound of the first sentences in a mail, the nation! have received from one of the many frustrated fathers, who find that visiting cases almost always are settled in after his mother's wishes.

the Father – which is anonymous out of consideration to the matter – before the divorce work, which gave more than dkk 30,000 per month. Today, he is on sick leave and has 13.508 kr paid, His letter – which he hopes will be shared by as many people as possible, so there will be a focus on fathers to the status of refugees – continues namely as follows:

- My son XX years has just been placed outside the home with the consent of the mother.

the Boy had resided with me, but I feel that the mother and the social worker in XXXXX the Municipality has made a conspiracy.

- on Top of the seizure – which my son did not understand, and several times loudly complained about - the system requires now, that I have to pay 2594 kr. for the placement. Each month.

- I must see him three hours every third week – that is, it becomes about 650 kr. pr. time.

- I believe that it is mega-frustrating and sad that our society has massive municipal dept., which in my eyes works to take children away from their closest caregivers and do not have the competence to be able to contribute to the support of the parents in a skilsmissekonflikt.

- It is the children who pay the price.

- And that the legislation gives the municipalities the power to require the ’own contributions’, means that I must go from house and home, sell the car etc.

- Smart think of my ex and system by the way, for soon, they can claim that I do not have the necessary tools/environment to be a good parent, write the father, there also is angry that the municipality uses his 2017 income as the basis to charge money for the seizure.