Three good reasons to fake an orgasm

"After morgongym, nine hours of work, big time shopping we, cooking, hair washing and greasing with eight expensive creams and serums in order not to become wrinkled, pimply, or both, so stagger to the bed where there'sa sexual intercourse and an orgasm has never felt further away. And then you wonder what is wrong with you."

"”did you?”, the question you want to avoid. It should be redundant, really, he would have noticed if you came? Instead he asks, and you do not know what you should answer."

"nyou wonder if you have low sex drive, physiological barriers, or just a failed bore must read lot of self-help books to be horny and happy, the fault must lie with you. Can't the so-called error to be that most women will not by vaginal intercourse so that orgasmens absence is probably due for a little concentration on your clit."

"But is also klitorisorgasmen impossible? Maybe because you have sex after the world's longest, busiest work days, you are skittrött and would rather sleep because the life you live is not so knullkompatibelt? So orgasmens absence depends not only on the quantity of penetration but also the scenario and the situation. Quite reasonable when your life puzzle feels like an extra large package from BR Toys with a thousand fucking pieces of the puzzle that you are going to get together, so thank fuck that both your sex drive and BR has gone bankrupt."

"And the subject of sexual desire: you have six you have the desire? On the basis of tvåsamhetsnormen and heteronormen have many sex in a way they are not teeth very much. Perhaps had you been hornier, happier and more orgasmic with more people in the bed or the larger variety. But it is a question you barely dare to ask. No, it is not possible for themselves."

"either way is a women's sex life, in many cases involuntarily orgasmlöst. So we believe that the key is to experiment and find ways to climax, but this is not so. What after all are the most important is not whether a woman has an orgasm – it is that her partners think so."

"the Press to get forces a different solution: to fake. This changed the analysis and confidence out against a scam. And after that the world's saddest spectacle has taken the place staring the man and the woman up in the ceiling, together, yet alone."

"the Intent is not to say that fejkandet is wrong or needs to stop. It is more complicated than that in a patriarchy, where the pressure is greater and more important than women's pleasure. Otherwise, had the solution on the orgasmlöst six obviously been more real orgasms instead of the more faked.nwhen a feminist perspective the way to change? Maybe. But after countless hours of tjejsnack I know that even feminists with a good knowledge of this fake orgasm. For the knowledge of structures is not always enough for individuals to be able to defy the norms of society, and självhatet whispers: ”You are a bad woman who didn't come. And also a bad feminist who lied about it.” Perfect."

"So in a society where women's sexuality skambelagts feels the real solutions are neither simple or realistic. On the contrary, like many, that it feels difficult or impossible. Therefore, here three good reasons to fake an orgasm."

"1. When you have sex against your viljanDu doesn't really want to be but makes up for that your partner is excited, or take the initiative for your relations's sake (also referred to as husfridsknulla). Good sex is important in a relationship, and to maintain the image of good sex fake you. Thus: first, pretend to you that you want to have sex, then pretend to you that the sex you wanted was good. All for the relationship's sake. Excellent."

"2. When you want him to like you is an attractive and ideal woman."

"A girl moaning just the guy glance down at the clitoris, the we have seen on film. Porn movies. nOch pornography have also shown that the sexiest women who will – in particular, of vaginal intercourse. At the same time, we have been misled to believe that women's bodies are a mystery, so a man who manages to conjure an orgasm is a god. And he feels like a god when you are so he likes to be with you. Therefore, the fake you, of course, an orgasm so he feels that both he and you are ”good in bed”. Excellent."

"3. When the sex is dåligtnOavsett if you have the desire, sex is sometimes simply not good. Maybe it hurts, not nice or makes you so bored that you would rather sleep (or die). Here it is important to be fast rather than to stand out. Claiming early on that there are extra nice so you quickly can step up the intensity of your imitations of the moans and in the best case, he will at the same time as you pretend to be. Excellent."

"All of these are common reasons why women fake the orgasm."

"In a dream world, I had instead given you ten tips to have an orgasm."

"Or no, in a dream world you had already known about them."