This is why you love Milf

The self-confident, sexy and enterprising mature woman, who knows her sexuality and knows what she wants, is mighty popular, both in pornography and popular culture.

She has several names like MILF and Cougar, which, with good will can be said to cover over the two sides of the same coin. MILF stands for 'Mother I’d Like to Fuck', and the concept comes from new york city ‘American Pie,’ where it's all about big teenagefyres fascination of the friends ' hot mom. She is the modern version of Miss Robinson, in the iconic 60's film ‘Brave adult world'.

Cougar-the term is also about mature women, but without the obvious modermotiv and more on the woman's own terms. She enjoys younger men.

On the world's largest pornoside, Pornhub, figuring MILF constantly in the top three of most popular search terms and the watched categories. Her cousin, 'stepmom' (papmor) are also among the sought. It is precisely the focal point in the Danish film ‘the Queen', which got great reviews last week. Here play Trine Dyrholm woman, who is along with his stepson.

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The american sexforsker Justin Lehmiller has in his book ‘Tell Me What You Want’ from 2018 interview more than 4000 men and women about their sexfantasier. Here it appears that 88 percent of heteromændene had fantasized about a MILF, while 42 percent did it often, which stresses that one does not need to be a teenage boy to dream about a sexy and mature woman.

Lehmiller believes that one must look at how the MILF's are manufactured in pornoen to find out what is so appealing about her. And it made other scholars also a few years ago, where they analyzed 50 MILF movies and 50 Teen-movies found on various tubesites.

Here it appears that the mature woman is often enterprising, dominant, controlling, active, and seductive: She takes the lead on both the seduction and the sexual activities.

Pornoanalyserne showed that it was 2 1/2 time more likely to MILF's take sexinitiativ than a teen. And the whole nine times more likely that she determines the pace and direction of sexual behaviour.

at the same time appear to MILF's also a typically as a woman of a higher status than the man in the films; as chief, judge, or teacher.

all in All, it suggests that MILF-fans attracted to dominant women with power, and the men turn, then, to be a bit (or a lot) submissive. Which is in line with what Lehmiller, incidentally, so in his imagination-analyses.

Here it turned out that the men, who often fantasized about the Milf, had several fantasies about being judge, will be humiliated sexually and be forced to have sex. And similarly joined the women in Lehmillers study, who had fantasies about to be a MILF, also more often about fantasies about being dominant, humiliating a partner sexually and forcing someone to have sex.

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Thus, there is overlap between the MILF and some BDSM elements, and one may with good right to say that MILF scenarios is a way to express its underlying BDSM desires.

Justin Lehmillers interviews differentiates, however, the image further, as he tracked a special personality among the men, who had MIILF-fantasies. They had a tendency to have a so-called creepy tilknytningsstil, where one is more insecure in your relationship and are often afraid that the partner will take, and thus you need a lot of confirmation.

These anxious men have a tendency to worry extra much about the sexual rejections, and here can a woman take control sexually speaking, be at ease, for then he unleashes to be in the sexual no man's land, where he takes a sexinitiativ, which may be rejected.

Furthermore, so Lehmiller a correlation between of have MILF fantasies and fantasize about being the subject, and to tilstredsstille his partner. And both parts fit fine into the image of dreaming about a MILF who knows who and what she wants and clearly express it.

Therefore, you must try a mature woman