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Sexologists, on the date: the Men think we are nymfomaner

She must be with anything, a wild volcano, a nymphomaniac. It is what sexologists experience, that many men thinking about them when they are on a date As a t

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Sexologists, on the date: the Men think we are nymfomaner

She must be with anything, a wild volcano, a nymphomaniac. It is what sexologists experience, that many men thinking about them when they are on a date

As a therapist, you know a lot about sex. It can come sex therapist in a sexual context, but it can also be problematic. Female sexologists, like dater, tells the namely, that men can have some pretty wild ideas about what such a therapist can and will.

Rikke Thuesen was pretty active on datingscenen, while she trained as a sexologist in Copenhagen and a few years after. Rikke was very surprised, how the men she dated, responded:

- Many thought I was a nymphomaniac, they went out from, I have no limits had, that I was with anything, anytime. It came typically expressed in the conversations - and if we came for longer, " says Thuesen.

- So they thought there was easy access to sex, and that you could afford a little more, both in datingsituationen and in bed, because they assumed I no fine sensations had, says the sex therapist.

Thuesen tells that there were also men who overperformede in bed:

- They seemed as if they thought: ‘Now I must rather give it extra gas to show what I'm good for.’

- But all in all I have probably disappointed, because I'm very mainstream, laughs Thuesen, who also saw men, who just went in the deadlock, before they even came so far.

they were of The opinion that such a therapist dare they damn sure do not play with, for they thought that they could be a whole lot.

There were also positive things about being single-sexologist:

- I could probably get away with much, because the man has thought, if she is a sexologist, so it must be that blowjob, after all, be state of the art. And so I could also be more guidende opposite the man, if for example, I receive oral sex, and he felt reprimanded or humiliated.

It was not only men who responded to Thuesens sexologist status:

- In the course of a few years approached eight women themselves, because they would have their pigesex-debut with me. Again - the thought supposedly that I was on as anyone and knew just exactly how pigesex should be, just because I was a sexologist. I did so not.

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We also asked the therapist Signe V. Bentzen, whether she has experienced, that men have responded to her job:

- Now I have not datet so much through apps and the sort. The people who I have datet, have mostly been people who already knew what I was doing.

But okay, I know at least one which said that it was hard for him, that I knew more about sex than him, and certainly thought that I was far more advanced than I am, and that I needed much more sex than what is true for me.

- But what about yourself, how do the women that you are sexjournalist?

- most run away screaming, probably because they - perhaps rightly - assume I am just as corny as I and my platform is emerging. A few have shared a disappointment that they were not fucked sins, and together, as they had anticipated. Others have told that they got a little performance anxiety, especially if I'm told that an ex-girlfriend's therapist.

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Three sexterapeuter of all sorts of tells like and other kind of stories on the huffingtonpost.com.

the 47-year-old Cindy Darrel works in New York, where she is active on the datingscenen:

- Some men are very respectful, but others take great liberties in the talks, and insist on talking about sex in ways I don't feel comfortable with. Recently telephoned a man I had only been on a date with, in the middle of the night and asked intimate questions about my sex life.

And he was even angry, when I put the foot down. I don't believe it would happen, if I had been a kindergarten teacher, says Darrel, who tells that the most prevalent misconception that she is with at the worst with anyone, anytime:

- And I definitely do not.

Celeste Hirschman says:

- Some men think that just because I'm sexual and expresses it, I am ready for sex with the same. It is actually a huge turn off for me, because I like flirting, the buildup, the seduction, before I jump in bed, says Hirschman.

- also, I think, that you feel intimidated by me in bed - and being so pleasantly surprised by how supportive and relaxed I am. I am always very willing to help people learn, and I do it gently and not-kritiserende.

Tom Murray also says that people think he is a super love:

- In the bed is some very nervous and too busy with the business of own performance: But I have it a little how to just relax - we are here to enjoy it, not to win an Oscar.

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