Before I had children, I was very positive at the pre-school that the idea. The children will be with other children and playing, practicing social interaction, participate in an educational activity and staying in environments designed for children. They may also close relations to other adults.
Now, a few years later, I faced the same kind of reasoning from other adults. ”It is so good with the pre-school”. It always makes me feel alienated, as if I live on a completely separate planet. ”But hey, do you not see? Why do you do nothing? It can not be supposed to be like this?”, I want to scream.
At my son's preschool department runs 17 children, and there are three regular educators that he feels. During the past three months, the three haven't worked together only once. Sometimes one of them has been there. Occasionally, they have been two.
I'm going to pick up my son, I am met by new and unknown people. I can no longer bother me. I can no longer introduce myself, take in hand and say who I am the mother of.
They don't seem to care either, and they present themselves never. They'll take care of 17 unknown children that they don't even know the name of. If my child had gone missing from the nursery they would not even be able to describe how he looks.
Every morning when my son wakes up he asks if we can stay at home. Periodically, crying he in the mornings and says he does not want to kindergarten. He does not like to be there.
we as parents should not confirm the child's fear. Instead, we should smile and be positive. Like a mantra I repeat every day how much fun he is going to get it.
An acquaintance who worked within the nursery says that it is the parents that are the problem. We pet too much with the kids. That the children manipulate us and play on the parents ' bad conscience. But it doesn't feel right. Can a child be so the proposals? Have not children a right to their feelings?
Some relics is terrible. He locks arms and legs around my body and drill into the face of my hakgrop and kramphåller place. He's crying desperately and is completely beside himself. I cry too when I leave.
holding the staff fixed him when I would go. I stood in the hallway outside and heard how he screamed. Something inside me breaks. Since that day, crying he's not as desperate anymore. He has learned that it only gets worse.
My children come home with bruises, wounds and injuries. His clothes are always dirty. One day he comes home with a avsliten toenail. Staff say they have not noticed anything.
The 17 children crammed in a space. The noise level is terrible. I am totally exhausted by the chaotic environment and it is difficult to hear what the educators are saying. These days I only take my son and go.
we got the parents to hear that they will not go out in the afternoons. There are not staff resources to dress the children.
When we ask if my son can get help to go to the toilet, they say that the children need to wear a diaper if they can't make to the toilet on their own. They do not have the time.
I do not care about the educational activities longer. I care not, unfortunately, on gender, social interaction, or curricula.
and all I ask is that my children should feel secure in the nursery. I do not want to hear routine mässanden about how great kindergarten is. Unfortunately it is not. It is time for all to wake up and realize that it is not enough to say that ”it goes over”.