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Column Sunday questions : Hooray, we're getting a divorce!

friends of the Couple after 22 years of marriage, a divorce. As if that were not bad enough, invite to a divorce party. I find that very tasteless. Should I go anyway? The Initiative to divorce proceeded from her, I know him but no longer. Children you have no.

Why is it exactly that you find this invitation so distasteful? Of course a divorce is an unpleasant process, often even more unpleasant, here, events to go ahead. After 22 years of marriage it is not just a whim, especially since it sure is not easy to divide two lives that are intertwined but together, apart again. The times are over, since spouse are forged together, for economic and conventional reasons, at the mercy of your life, is to be welcomed. This helps to avoid misfortune.

you assume that the friends have decided to divorce after careful Consideration. Sometimes couples come to a point where it is no longer together, even if it can't be understood by outsiders, because the partners appear to be well and perhaps even happy. Well, your friends feel the separation in the end as a liberation, that you have decided to still remain friends and this is a big event in your life with the old Familiar celebrate and also want to seal the deal.

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In the case of a war of the roses with the horrible Fighting and suffering children would have certainly not given such an invitation. This is certainly not an extravagant Party. But maybe there is a small reception, at which all present can remain, somehow connected to each other, without shadow or animosity. Then the invitation would not taste, but an expression of pragmatism. And there really is no reason, moral reasons not to participate.
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