Consent - as it is used in real sex life

the Consent is in the degree appeared on the agenda. Most, even the network piksvingende trolls can agree that it is to everyone's best, when both parties in a sexual situation is on the game.

Yes means yes. But is everything else so no? How to get the consent of the real to expression, when young people throw themselves out the sex?

Researchers from the UNITED states has spoken with 707 male and female collegestuderende about their thoughts about and experiences with active consent in order to illustrate how to express consent.

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It turns out that the participants have different approach to the form of consent used in relation to the sexual acts, touching of the genitals, receiving oral sex, giving oral sex, penetration with the penis into the vagina as well as anal sex.

The young men and women, for example, was asked to think back on sexoplevelser, where he had the desire to penis-in-vagina sex, and cultivated it. How was it so expressed that they would like to have it?

And the same to the participants so tell compared to the other sexual acts.

Also indicated they also, if they were lovers, bollevenner or another with the current partner.

the Researchers divided the different forms of consent signals up as follows: The verbal, explicit, direct, as ‘should we swipe?’ and the equally direct answer: ‘Yes'.

The more implicit verbal: 'Shall we move into the bedroom?’ the appropriate response 'Yes'.

The explicit non-verbal signals e.g. by gramse in the genitals and nod in the affirmative to a sexual proposal.

The implicit non-verbal signals that are more indirect and underforsået shows sexinteresse, like taking clothes without asking first, smile and twinkle in a sexual way, or leave a public place to go to more private chambers.

Signals without response: An apparent desire for sex without displaying verbal or physical resistance to sex. As in vedkommede said not no, or opposite.

Fig: Willis/the International Journal of Sexual Health

It turned out that of course there is a big difference, which signals are used when:

the Most obvious is the participants about anal sex: Here provides 80 percent of, to get explicit verbal consent. 57 percent do it by ordinary sexual intercourse, 44 percent by receiving oral sex, 43 percent before the provides and 22 percent by a manual touching of genitals.

In other words; The more intimate the sexual act is considered to be, the more likely it is that you are ready at least around consent.

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Additionally, the researchers found that it is more likely that men use the explicit verbal signals than women - which also hangs together with the fact that it is often men who take the initiative for most actions.

the Study also shows that individuals are less direct and more implicit, by non-binding relationship. It comes a little behind on the researchers, while other research has shown that young people are very samtykkebevidste by non-committal sex (many american universities have in recent years done a great deal of info about consent), just like they like to rest more on the indirect signals in the long-term relationship, where know each other better.

In the present study asked for the participants to think of a sexual situation in which they were willing and gave/asked for consent to sex. It can mean that they are more likely to have chosen situations where they used explicit signals. Which can give a skewed picture of the facts.

Therefore, the researchers hope that future studies will delve into how consent or lack of consent looks like, when one does NOT have desire for sex.